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A VERY SAD THING HAPPEND TODAY :(((

I JUST GOT THE MOST HORRIBLE NEWS EVER.....ONE OF MY FRIEND WHO I ALSO WENT TO HS WITH GOT MARRIED ABOUT 3 YRS AGO HER AND HER HUSBAND WERE SOO HAPPY THEY HAD JUST BOUGHT A HOUSE AFTER STRUGULING TO GET PREG. ALSO SHE FINALLY WAS PREG.

ON WED. SHE WENT TO THE HOSPITAL TO GIVE BIRTH SHE WAS 38W4D WITH A GIRL....SHE STARTED PUSHING AND SHE PASSED OUT!!!! THE NURSES AND DRS. DINT KNOW WHAT WAS HAPPING SO THEY RUSHED HER INTO THE OR FOR AN EMERGENCY C-SECTION....WHILE ON THE TABLE SHE DIED!!!!
HOW ****** UP IS THAT (SORRY BUT IM REALLY GOING INSANE RIGHT NOW) I DONT GET IT....HAVING A BABY IS SUPPOST TO BE THE MOST HAPPIEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE IS SHOULD BE SO NATURAL BUT LATELY IM COMING TO THINK THAT HAVING A BABY IS MORTAL!!

HERE I AM SITTING HERE CRYING MY EYES OUT THINKING ABOUT MY LITTLE BOY WHOS FIGHTING FOR HIS LIFE WHILE MY FRIED DIES GIVING BIRTH AND I THINK TO MYSELF IT COULD HAVE BEEN WORST FOR ME...BUT IM HERE AND MY BABY IS HERE.....SHE DIED! THEY SAY SHE HAD A STROKE AND THAN AN ANNUIRISM (SORRY SO??) HOW COULD THAT HAPPEND???

SHE DELIVED THE MOST BEAUTIFUL LITTLE GIRL....PLEASE LETS KEEP HER AND THE BABY IN OUR PRAYERS....AS THIS WILL BE A VERY HARD TIME FOR HER HUSBAND!

IM STILL IN SHOCKE....THIS SUCKS. :(
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284738 tn?1283106819
oh im sorry for your loss... I will keep them in my prayers
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460088 tn?1289280986
Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry. I'll be praying for you and them!
Stay strong :)
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354373 tn?1299184526
Oh my...that is horrible...I'm so sorry for you as well as her husband and baby girl......Life just seems so unfair sometimes......
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290867 tn?1333569278
I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you and her family in my prayers.  God Bless you and your little one.
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136689 tn?1419580447
omg i'm so sorry for you losing a really good friend but she has left the most precious little girl behind to keep her memory living on. be apart of this little girls life and tell her all about her mommy she will appreciate it when she is older, and stay strong as it will get eaiser, and yes child birth is a joyious occasion but things do happen , so stay stong for that little girl and you little boy
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373683 tn?1218997212
Oh my god! I am sorry!!!! It sound's to me like the strain of the pushing caused an anurysm making her die instantly...... I AM SO SORRY... I feel for you and your friends family......
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193988 tn?1215023883
Im so sorry thats horrible!!!God BLESS...
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355049 tn?1272256388
I am so sorry for them!!!!! That is devastingly horrible news!!!!!! That poor baby girl will have to grow up never knowing her mother thats just horrible!!!! They say things happen for a reason, but times like this you have to wonder what was the reason???
I will be praying for  you and your family as well as her baby and husband!
God be with you all!
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OH NO! It seems like today is full of bad news and I'm SO sorry for your loss! We may never know the reason why this happened but there is a reason. An anneuryism probably could not have been prevented and... I'm just dumbfounded. I don't know what to say except I AM SO SORRY!

Please tell us the baby's name and how she's doing!
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i dont know either ive been sitting here thinking why what could be the reason for all this...but i dont have an asnwer...all i know is that she was a sweetheart and she would have been the best mom ever....i remember back in high school when i was new and i felt like i was the outcast she was the first one to come up to me and talk to me we became friends almost immediately , she had plans for her life, she was a very smart girl and she was soooo pretty!! it just hurts to see the good and young people go first.

Her daugther is soo precious shes got her big blue eyes and Nicole always wanted to name her daughter ANGELINA ROSE because she was an angel sent  to  her  from above ...her and her husband tired for 3 yr to have her :(

It just seems like everything thas happening around me is one bad thing after another...the only thing i look farword now is to be strong for my little guy whos fighting everyday to take him home and to luv him everyday like it was the last.

Thank you guys for all your kind words and support i woudnt know what do to without this group! Im gonna try going to bed now its going to be a longggg day tom.
Thank you all again.
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193988 tn?1215023883
Do the doctors know why this happend to her?????Was she very young??This scares me.
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99627 tn?1301270952
I am so sorry. It sure will be very hard on her husband, but everybody will get through it.
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414635 tn?1272217693
wow, that is so sad, The father will have to be one strong man with lots of support from family and friends, what a shock
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306389 tn?1213487696
Hold tight.. Things happen for a reason.. I am so sorry for your loss and theres.  But now you have a little girl to be strong for and help her remember her mom for the rest of her life.  So keep strong for your boy, and keep your chin up for that little girl.  You are the only one with the stories to tell her about her mom so young that are in your mind.. I hope you are over your cold to see your son right now, you could both use a good hug right now..
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