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I will be 24 next week and I am in the process of applying to nursing school. I jus found out I am preg with my 1st baby. However, I have been wit the father for 7 yrs but I was goin to breakup wit him bcuz I can't trust him but now I'm pregnant. Bcuz of this I find it hard to be jappy about my pregnancy. Another issue that is makin things worse is I planned on goin to nursing school outta stay jus so I can get in quicker but the father doesn't want to go wit us so now I feel lik this preg will hold me back from my dreams. I kno I sound really negative but I don't know how gto feel
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1020256 tn?1332096483
hello, my daughter is 20 and just had her second baby 8 weeks ago. She is going to school fulltime to become a nurse and working fulltime with two kids. Sometimes I wonder how she does it but she is and I'm sure you can to. Good luck to you and i agree, dump the loser and just enjoy your life and your child.
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1020256 tn?1332096483
hello, my daughter is 20 and just had her second baby 8 weeks ago. She is going to school fulltime to become a nurse and working fulltime with two kids. Sometimes I wonder how she does it but she is and I'm sure you can to. Good luck to you and i agree, dump the loser and just enjoy your life and your child.
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869758 tn?1329522052
Don't stay with him just bc your pregnant. You can still go to nursing school. My friend did and then when she had the baby while she was still in school she got a lot of help financially bc she was a single mother. Stay in school, keep your baby and ditch the loser. You will be so happy you did. Best of luck!
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Its a terribly confusing time for many.  The baby does not need to hold you back from your dreams. . .you will still ne able to become a nurse.  It may take you a bit longer. . .but this baby will add so much joy along the way that the hard work will all pay off.  It will allwork out and its ok to not have it all figured out right
now.   Congratulations!  Enjoy your miracle!
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