SO so stressed!!!

[Aaliyah__2]

I'm MAD about being pregnant again at a young age (19) me and my bd will never get along we won't b able to live with other he had put his hands on me I swear I'm done just arguing makes me think f u c k it I'm gonna tell my mom before the fourth of July I was trying to have everyone have a nice holiday but I'm already mad and want everything out. Idk if she'll kicks me out idk where me and my son will go. I have money from my school check but still no job I could get me and him in to a motel for the night but idk how I would get. There since I have no car I'm just over it and I give up. My life is h e l l right now

[Aaliyah__2]

If I wasn't gonna keep my baby I would have my bd take the baby or his grandma. For I can b with my baby I don't want to do adoption. I would rather keep my baby

[Aaliyah__2]

I'm gonna keep my baby y give it up to someone that I don't know it can harm the baby don't know about ppl sometimes

[aisbad]

Best thing to do for the innocent soul is to give him/her up for adoption to a good family..

[Aaliyah__2]

Thank u I'm glad u understand me showard022

[Aaliyah__2]

Yeah ik what I gotta do. I'm gonna stay in school yes I had sex and got myself in this situation it's not the baby's fault that it's here I'm mad at myself for putting a lot of stress on it. Things happens for a reason I was on birth control so I guess it was ment for me to have another kid at thus time I'm just glad my kids will b 2 1/2  years apart and that I'll b  20, when the baby comes

[showard022]

I don't think you are, you just are. Your comment is unnecessary.  What give you the right to call her weak. You don't know her situation. From understanding she's not planning on it either. My mother in law had to give a child up and it was one of the hardest decisions she had to make but she knew she needed to. She already had three kids and the father started using drugs and was very abusive. She already worked two jobs and could barely support the children she had. It's very hard to. It's a decision you must be very strong to do.

[FirstBaby10_2]

We'll then good for u stick with that.

[Aaliyah__2]

Um really everyone has a different situations and I said I don't want to do that but it might b right and I'm gonna give up my child I didn't do so with my first so y should I do it with this baby I'll do everything in my power to have me and my kids a good *** life so don't get it twisted I'm gonna do what I gotta do

[Aaliyah__2]

My son Is 2 years on so they'll b 2 1/2 years apart

[FirstBaby10_2]

Yes adoption is better than abortion 100% but like she said man up!! U made the decision to have sex so u got pregnant wether u wanted to or not. Now ur gonna have to do it the hard way and man up go to school work and take care of two kids!! **** ya it would be easier to give ur kid up for adoption but that shows how weak u r. My mom went to school full time and worked full time with 4 kids never once thought about putting her kids up for adoption. I really don't care if anyone thinks I'm being a ***** but the reality is u ****** up and got pregnant again now keep ur baby and do what I have to do!!

[dandielion]

I think everything will be fine you seem to have lots of support just remember do what is best for your kids. And may I ask how old is your son? In currently 19 also I have a daughter who is about to be 8 months old and I'm currently 3 months pregnant with my second baby. I know that it is hard me and my fiancé were staying with my mom and she thought that I was pregnant and kicked me out I hadn't even told anyone yet she just assumed now we are staying with my mother in law and it is a much better situation for my daughter. Time do get hard but it will be worth it in the end everything will work out even if it's now how you want it to thing will be fine in the end

[Aaliyah__2]

Thanks. I wanna keep my bby my bd was like if u think u can't do it I'll take the baby his grandma said the same thing I have a lot of help from my bd family with my son so I'm not struggling I have it made with him ik I'll have a lot of help with this baby but sometimes I get mad and stressed and sad thinking where am I gonna live his grandma offered me to stay at her house if my mom kicks me out his grandma and grandpa said that they'll make sure I finish school because they will help with my kids when I go to school

[jullianbrooke]

Adoption is a great thing! Especially in your situation where you are already struggling and already a young mother. Maybe your mom wouldnt kick you out if you told her that because it really takes a strong kind of person to make that kind of sacrifice.  I really hope things turn around for you and who knows maybe it will. As hard as it is just try to stay positive :)

[melcarin]

Girl if you decide to go for adoption I have a lot of respect for you. I'd much rather give a child up for adoption than have an abortion. Adoption isn't a horrible thing. Sometimes it's better to do than to try to raise a child that you know you can't give what it needs. I'm adopted and I dont mind it one bit.

[Aaliyah__2]

Thank you :-)

[Roxanne28]

^^Agree.. if its possible u could do school and some part time job bt first talk to your mum and ask her for support...
@cassie-rondo is so wrong and if u really think u cant cope u can think about adoption coz lets be honest two kids thats a lot of expenses, wt ever your decision gonna be u r in my prayers and hope all goes well for u xx

[Aaliyah__2]

Thank you.  I'm gonna get some more applications and fill them.out

[oct3014]

Ignore that! That's everyone's biggest fear at your age what will my mom say!!! You never know she may be upset at first but your still her child and she has seen the things you've been through so dnt jump to conclusions too quick. If you are in school you are already showing you are trying. There are many resources to turn to before you do adoption or anything else. You said your sister is trying to help you get a job that's good. Just keep searching even if you have to apply at mcdonalds a job is a job no matter what! Good luck

[Aaliyah__2]

Thank you so much I want to stay in school and give my kids the best life I can and have them everything they need. So that makes me work even hard to do what I gotta do for my kids

[OctoberBaby5]

@ Cassie_rondos comment thats rather ignorant... Aaliyah whatever you think is best for your baby is the right choise :)

[showard022]

It's a good options for many people. A very hard and selfless decision.  Not a horrible one. I think you will be fine though. You took care of your first and I'm sure your strong enough. It's very and I'm hoping the best for you. It's awesome that your going to college! The best thing you can do for your children. Just look for the light at the end of the tunnel.

[showard022]

It's a good options for many people. A very hard and selfless decision.  Not a horrible one. I think you will be fine though. You took care of your first and I'm sure your strong enough. It's very and I'm hoping the best for you. It's awesome that your going to college! The best thing you can do for your children. Just look for the light at the end of the tunnel.

[2ndBabyDueFeb13th]

I had to respond to this last comment from CASSIE_RONDO!
No putting a child up for a doption is NOT a horrible thing. THAT was an ignorant comment. Adoption is a life saving blessing for some people. It is only he mothers decision what she should to in her situation.

[Aaliyah__2]

Ummm really I posted this yesterday I went to bed it's already morning and um u don't know what I'm going through for one and I said I didn't want to put my baby maybe I have to do that but ik I won't I was just saying.