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I'm 15 and pregnant and everybody is putting me down and telling me I'm stupid and even my baby dad is so mean to me and I cry everyday because nobody is happy for me. Please help.. :(
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6642814 tn?1399431158
i was 14 when i had my oldest. everyone was mad & didnt want to accept it. & honestly they didnt unill after a i had him. Im 22 now & my son is an amazing lil boy. im so happy i didnt have secound thoughts about keeping him. it has been VERY hard & me & his dad have been judged alot. but we knew it was our life not theres. Keep your head up babe. everything will be ok. stay possitive. keep yourself healthy & happy as much as possible. :)
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Im 20 and preg and still get the same treatment hun xx don't worry ur nt the first and certainly not the last teen pregnancy xx ignore haters :)
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7246896 tn?1392863749
Your going to get that and so much more trust me I know I got pregnant at 15 had my daughter at 16 my own family hurt my feelings and I lost friends people talked about me and so much more but guess what the sweetest revenge is showing them they're wrong i finished high school got a job while in school and moved out my mom house at 16 took care of my daughter and her daddy now I'm 24 engaged and pregnant again to and byasomeone else not my daughter dad but plus I'm in my last year of college my point is you can do it it will be hard at times but your never alone just stay focuse and be a great mom
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Just look at the way they're treating you and let that fuel you to do your absolute best in life! A baby is a huge responsibility but if you face that responsibility head on you can prove everyone who's mean to you now wrong! Just focus on loving that baby and working really hard to give it the best life possible. As for the dad, if he wants to treat you like that you should just let him go. Pregnancy is a time when you need positivity in your life, and an unhealthy relationship can be very hurtful to your health. You need to separate yourself from that. Just be happy for yourself. You know that the human being inside of you is the start of a new life, and it's very exciting! I know everything's really hard right now and the situation your in makes it even harder. But if you do your best, things will improve. If you need to talk to someone, go ahead and talk to your doctor when you're there for an appointment. Your emotional health is apart of your medical health. That's what they're there for!  
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Well I'm 17 and pregnant my baby's father is not around I do everything myself and I've honestly grown so much people will put you down the best thing to do is prove them wrong god will never put more on you than you can handle remember that and believe in that you can be a better mom than most grown ups as long as you put your mind heart and soul into it
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7708430 tn?1394287500
I am 14 and pregnant and ive gotten the same treatment. Dont worry about it. Its you and your baby now so just focus on being happy in your pregnancy :)
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7789909 tn?1400724694
I am 17 and prego. Some of my family was really puttingbme down at first but after i just started not caring what they thought they starting coming around and being here for me. Its hard to be put down like that by the ones you love but stand up and show them you can and will do it. You need to show the world that age dont matter. Just stay in school thats were i messed up or at lest do some type of online classes. Stay strong and dont stress it.
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Thanks every one (:
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7702223 tn?1394319054
I'm 15 & pregnant. You just gotta show everyone that you'll be a good mom and be happy for your baby.
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Just try not to let it get to you hun! :) just think about your lil one and how happy you're going to be when you hold her for the first time! :D if you ever need to message me you can :)))
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4503521 tn?1400858886
Well dear you being 15 and pregnant is probably something they did not see for you. So its not something there proud of; however, what's done is done don't stress yourself take care of yourself and your they will come around when there ready.
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no ones going to be happy about it. you're really young. but they will come around. once the baby comes everyone will be different. as for your babys daddy. you don't need to talk to him if he treats you like that. in fact you don't need to talk to him period until he knows how to talk to you right. he has no rights to that baby his just a sperm donor at this point until he gets his act together. you need to do whats best for you and the baby and that means to stop stressing and crying. its not getting you anywhere. it will get better if you let it. hang in there.
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7819795 tn?1394500455
You may have alot of people putting you down and stuff. But try not to let them get to you. Bc it is ur choice not there's.  And I know alot of people that had a kid around ur age and they want through the same thing.  And they kept it. Then towards there end of there pregnancy everyone changed.  They started being nice to them and stuff.  If u need anyone to talk to message me on here.
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