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So every since I found out I was pregnant which was in july I been hiding myself from the outside world. Why? Because it makes me sad and depress, and I come home an cry afterwards. This weekend was my first time spend time with half of my sisters its 11 of us in all. I was happy until I got home and thought about what my day consisted of. :( I don't regret my unborn at all but I do regret the father of my child!!
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Hey, I'm in the same situation as you, I was left at 16 weeks, I'm 24 weeks and 5 days now, no sign of him caring in any way. But its okay, we don't need them, we have our beautiful little babies on the way!!!:) and we're never alone, the baby is living with you its part of you ♡ your little baby feels what you feel, Im not over it but I've been getring over it by walking, doing yoga, counseling, talking to my baby, don't be sad, stress is what you don't need right now. Just think of little cute baby in there. Be proud of yourself, look at you being a responsible adult and having it ^-^ be happy ♡ congratulations :)
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I understand. .. its not a good feeling to think youre in this pregnancy alone but the sooner you realize you need to get over him the sooner your life becomes easier and the sooner you can b happier. Its all about you and the baby this is not your loss its his. Also try to tell your family so you can have some support ,dont keep this beautiful news to yourself try to share it w them:) i know its not always easy but its something you need. Dont  isolate yourself:(
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Thanks ladies. I'm trying so hard to be happy but its starting to become harder and harder because he finds away to steal my happiness. Now I think my be is talking to my sister and he doesn't even call and check on me or his child.
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Im not so good at advice but ive always hav had bad depression so wen someone's sad i just like to remind them that theres somebody in this world that really loves you and since youre pregnant guess wat? your baby see's you as the world just as you would see him/her. Dont worry about the father you have the best thing any woman can hav. A child of your own. Others are less fortunate and are not even able to conceive a baby. Can you imagine that? Be happy and bond w your baby you two need each others love fully<3  
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Well i understand what you are saying but its to late to change that now you have a baby in the way and u need to move on and support the baby and be the best parent you can be no matter how bad the father is the child will still respect you for being there
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