Saddness.

[MKristine]

Is it normal to just feel sad? All I feel is saddness. I just want to cry all the time. It scares me because I struggle with depression and I don't want to be too over whelmed when my baby gets here. Should I talk to my doctor? Is there anything they could do? Does anyone else feel like this? Please help me.

[MKristine]

Thank you! And I don't thing there are any groups. I am sorry I got to you late I couldn't log on. I think the only groups around me are teen drug abuse groups. I think it would be a lot easier if I knew someone who is/has went through all that I amhave. I thank you for your suppost though! And I appriciate what you shared. I think my past might play a part in me being so scared.

[dueoctober22]

*** - that word was it , not sure why it's been censored x

[dueoctober22]

Aww bless,  you need more support whilst being pregnant chick!  Is there any pregnancy groups in your local area you can go 2?  I would speak to your midwife hun explain your feelings it's better to get *** of your chest then let it bottle up,  honestly it's perfectly normal feeling scared - after having my son I took him to get registered for birth certificate - I cried on the train I was so scared to take him out!  , I'm pregnant again and still scared of being in a car, - just must be my hormones again!  Plus you had a sad time loosing a baby which I bet you still feel alot of grief for,  and maybe thats not helping toward your sadness at the moment and your probably even more scared of anything happening like that again - what you need is more love and support! Sending big hugs xxx

[MKristine]

I had a misscarrige a while back. So I guess this is kind of my second. I don't really have any family members to talk to and my fiance is too busy with his friends and everything to even listen to me. When he does he gets mad about what I talk to him about. I wasn't sure if this was normal and it was making me scared. I just want the best for my baby and me feeling like this can't be good. I am glad I'm not the only one out there that has felt like this though. It makes me a little more at ease. And thank you for replying, I really appriciate it. :) I hope I start feeling happier too.

[dueoctober22]

Hi there,  is this your first baby?  If it is it could be that your scared about the changes that await you,  I was scared I will admit it when I was pregnant with my son,  I was that bad I wouldn't travel in a car or bus incase it crashed,  its your hormones that make you feel like this and everyone feels different things,  you may feel sad but doesn't mean your depressed,  maybe speak to your health visitor if your worried about yourself , or a family member?  They will be able to keep an eye on you for any depression symptoms,  just try keep your chin up hun enjoy every moment of your pregnancy it's the most beautiful thing in the world, I hope your feeling happier soon :-) xxx