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Scared and worried...

Late this summer I found out that I was pregnant, unfortunately I had a miscarriage. I was very emotional and just broken. Although we weren't sure if we were ready to have a baby my boyfriend was very supportive. After everything we had discussed that we wanted to wait until we finished our studies to have a baby.I found out last week that I was expecting. I'm very scared that I'll have another miscarriage. And also that my boyfriend isn't ready to handle a baby. What should I do?
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Well you probably should have used protection lol if you weren't trying to have a baby.. The only options to me is raising it or adoption. Raising it would make everything hard & probably impossible for one of you to work on studies,unless you have a full time babysitter. So yeah discuss with your partner!but don't have an abortion..that's not right.
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Thats a tough situation. Theres a good chance you won't have another miscarriage though, but if you are concerned about not being able to support a child there are two options. Abortion or adoption. Have you talked to your boyfriend again about the possibility of raising a child, how did the first miscarriage effect you and him emotionally?  Not everyone is always ready to take on the responsibility of having a baby, even grown adults. Wish you luck. If you are going to continue with the pregnancy I wouldn't worry to much about another miscarriage though.
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