I was a very petite pre-pregnancy. I was 97lbs & 5'4". I'm now 33 weeks and I've gained almost 25lbs. My belly is huge and even my face got rounder. When I look in the mirror, I do feel like I'm a whale. when I walk, I know I'm waddling. Oh when I eat, I feel like a giant hippo that eats 500lbs of food everyday. When I see people that's my pre-pregnancy wearing bikini I do feel a lil jealous. I don't feel as sexy because now sex is difficult due to my big belly. I do feel down sometimes but I don't let that get to my head. When my hubby tells me no matter what I'm still his sexy wife. I trust & listen to him. Because I know that it doesn't matter if I look huge to other people, as long as my hubby still thinks I'm beautiful, and he loves me. That's all it matters. And I try to stay positive with thoughts like hey I may not look so attractive now but I have a little baby kicking inside me! That's the most beautiful and magical thing ever. No hot body or makeup is going to take that from me! I know I am beautiful because I am a mommy now ;)
Hey, firstly im sorry you feel like that I know it must be hard :( I'm a ftm, only 11 weeks ATM so not really showing however I have suffered with eating disorders in the past and my changing body is quite difficult for me to grasp... I guess no one can truly make you see different, but you can look at the positives, your body is this way because your growing another little person! And I think that's worth it all
And of course no one gives a ****.