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i am 20weeks... is it bad that i dont want to have sex with my bf all the time? I mean half the time im just not in the mood!
Nothing to worry about... I started to show a little when I was 20 weeks... Some people show even later....
No yoru fine hun, this is normal. But I wouldn't let him go without it too long. I can understand if you are on restrictions, but this time in your relationship is stressful for your man too. He is becoming a father (maybe again, I don't know your situation), your body is changing, your moods are probably changing, he is probably worrying about a lot of things. Men don't usually express that kind of stuff to their pregnant spouses because they don't want us to worry.
Sex is a great way for them to relieve that tension and keep the relationship connected physically and emotionally. I'm not always in the mood for sex either but I love my hubby dearly, he takes care of me, treats me like a queen and has never left my side. Sometimes throwing your man a bone will really help keep him stress-free too. Of coures, he should be doing the same for you - and I mean trying to keep you stress-free as well whether sex has to do with it or not. Relationships are a two way street and one person can't always be the driver. The advice I would like to give you is make sure he is getting some "stress-relieving" time with you on a normal basis. I see so many women on her complaining of how insensitve their men are but think about this: As women are we necessarily worrying about our man's sensitive needs as well?
Sex is a great way for them to relieve that tension and keep the relationship connected physically and emotionally. I'm not always in the mood for sex either but I love my hubby dearly, he takes care of me, treats me like a queen and has never left my side. Sometimes throwing your man a bone will really help keep him stress-free too. Of coures, he should be doing the same for you - and I mean trying to keep you stress-free as well whether sex has to do with it or not. Relationships are a two way street and one person can't always be the driver. The advice I would like to give you is make sure he is getting some "stress-relieving" time with you on a normal basis. I see so many women on her complaining of how insensitve their men are but think about this: As women are we necessarily worrying about our man's sensitive needs as well?
Girl I feel the sameway. Some people Are want it all the time or dont. Don't force yourself.
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