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She's really getting to me now. I'm going to explode. Help
Right as most of you know I really DON'T like my boyfriends sister, Mary.....
This all started after she called me a Murderer are my termination which was NONE of her bees wax and I did it for the best of my baby (If you have any questions about my termination and why, Personal message me) Anyways... from then on I have NOT liked her because that wasnt fair. Her ex partner also told her to have an Abortion which is crap cause I asked Austin (her son) I asked his dad. and he said its a lie!
Me and my partner got about together shortly after my termination (My boyfriend is called John and we didnt get back together because I had the termination...) and I dont think she was very happy about that either again because of the termination... Which again means nothing to her.. Mary is the person if something happens to you, its happened to her but Obviously about 60.00000000 times worse or more than once.... Which is very much now annoying EVERYONE.
In september last year (Before I found out about my terminated pregnancy) Johns brother (Andrew) and his Fiance (Mickey) found out they were expecting, everyone was very happy for them this that and the other. Of couse Except Mary....,
Now she wasnt getting attention anymore... she kicks up a fuss and trys to get involved DEMANDING she has Andrews baby every other night? Although Mary already has a son called Austin who basically DOESNT know his mum because she's out EVERYNIGHT getting drunk and on the weekends Austin is at Marys parents house Whilst she is out getting drunk.
NOW... a few weeks later when Mickey confirms she is having a girl Mary is all of a sudden Pregnant and feels that its going to also be a girl, but she didnt get the reaction she wanted... Because she doesnt look after the son she has. Mickey has been extremely ill throughout her pregnancy, having the ecpasimaiaa (I cant remember how to spell it) and Aniema, and LOTS and before she gives birth she has to be pumped with blood because she wont stop bleeding after the baby is born and Millie and Mickey could both Die.
Now guess what..... Mary is saying she's having the EXACT same. But wouldnt that of happened during her first pregnancy (With the blood thing) but Mickeys it genetic.... and it happened to her mum in both pregnancies and stuff....
Mary is Anything you can do I can do better.
Its like if your washing machine is broken and you have a 2 yr old son you'd do ANYTHING to get it fixed so your Son had clean clothes... Nope not Mary, she asked her dad to buy her a new onee said NO so she said well say bye to Austin then? but she still hasnt got one, and I saidd why not try charities they have Tons and they will sort you out. No she said I want a brand new one alright, its nothing to do with you anyways... so her mum does her washing which gets so dirty it broke her mums washing machine... she laughed.
Oh and in winter we had SO much snow and Ice, Mary's mum slipped and broke her foot... she could walk for about 12 weeks. So Mary's mum said she couldnt have Austin untill her Cast is off her foot.. Mary didnt like that, and said she was selfish and she did it on purpose, so mary couldnt go out on everynight and on weekends. But mary found a way to go out, and so no one saw Austin for 12 weeks, she didnt even ask how her own mum was. Oh, when she did bring Austin round whilst her mum was in Cast she went out for an Hour and left austin with her mum even though she couldnt walk, but stil didnt ask how she was or say thank you.
She uses her Son as a weapon... if she doesnt get her own way she will say you cant see him then.... and its not fair.
As you all know I was bleeding Thursday Evening after moving my room around, so I think I tore something, So I text her yesterday asking if her other half was around to help John move his Animals out of her house because she is killing them on purpose even though she offered to have them after she kicked him out... ANYWAYS she said he's asleep even though he wasnt... we asked him when we got there he said he'll be done in a sec (On his game) she was like you aint F****** helping them, they can do it themselves... she's lying about her bleeding and stuff anyways I bet she aint even pregnant she's jealous because Im pregnant so she's making it up and she'll miscarry in a few weeks cause we wasnt really pregnant. So me and John moved them ( I nearly fainted) she laughed and said im pathetic and started bitching to her mates about us saying im lying and stuff and my otherhalf doesnt actually want to be with me... John heard all this and went mad at her saying shut up and stuff.... after we moved the Animals we could and the ones that will fit in the car she went to john you owe me £400? when he owes her £10? for electric money, so he told her to F*** off that his money is going on the baby now because he's going to be a good Dad. And she laughed....
Now I am currently pregnant she is saying im going to be rubbish and dump my kid on everyone and its going to get taken away from me cause I killled my first baby.....
there is SO much more, i'd be here for the rest of my life.
She puts me down and there's nothing I can do now because if I say something the rest of the family lose out on seeing Austin, all because I stood up for myself and my boyfriend and his family. She even puts her Brother Andrew down saying he;s going to be a rubbish dad and thhings and he should follow in her foot steps cause she's a great mum. ?????... Who is out everynight and leaves her Son with every Tom **** and Harry?....
She apprently has very bad panic attacks (Shes never had one in her life) and cant leave her house... But can leave it to go to the pub... And she contridicts herself...
Anywayss
She had a go at John because we didnt tell her... (We actually only told our parents only because of the miscarrige she said she didnt care she should have been one of the first to know)
I dont know what to do, Everyone is thinking the same as me and should tell her to just bugger off, But Im so close to tears everyday because she puts me down, i suffer from depression and if that gets too bad Ill have a relapse with my Anorexia. Im in Danger of my baby if this happens so Im trying not to let it bother me which is why im letting it out on here.... but its actually getting TOO much and im scared this will happen.....
I dont see how anything I do with my life should be any of her business... and why she needs to know EVERYTHING that goes on with me and John and now peanut... (Our baby) but she DEMANDS it.
Shall I say something to her.. Or brush everything she says off??
Because I fear for my baby because she is going to stress me out so much and upset me I might relapse
HELP ME PLEASE!
Thank you.
xx
This all started after she called me a Murderer are my termination which was NONE of her bees wax and I did it for the best of my baby (If you have any questions about my termination and why, Personal message me) Anyways... from then on I have NOT liked her because that wasnt fair. Her ex partner also told her to have an Abortion which is crap cause I asked Austin (her son) I asked his dad. and he said its a lie!
Me and my partner got about together shortly after my termination (My boyfriend is called John and we didnt get back together because I had the termination...) and I dont think she was very happy about that either again because of the termination... Which again means nothing to her.. Mary is the person if something happens to you, its happened to her but Obviously about 60.00000000 times worse or more than once.... Which is very much now annoying EVERYONE.
In september last year (Before I found out about my terminated pregnancy) Johns brother (Andrew) and his Fiance (Mickey) found out they were expecting, everyone was very happy for them this that and the other. Of couse Except Mary....,
Now she wasnt getting attention anymore... she kicks up a fuss and trys to get involved DEMANDING she has Andrews baby every other night? Although Mary already has a son called Austin who basically DOESNT know his mum because she's out EVERYNIGHT getting drunk and on the weekends Austin is at Marys parents house Whilst she is out getting drunk.
NOW... a few weeks later when Mickey confirms she is having a girl Mary is all of a sudden Pregnant and feels that its going to also be a girl, but she didnt get the reaction she wanted... Because she doesnt look after the son she has. Mickey has been extremely ill throughout her pregnancy, having the ecpasimaiaa (I cant remember how to spell it) and Aniema, and LOTS and before she gives birth she has to be pumped with blood because she wont stop bleeding after the baby is born and Millie and Mickey could both Die.
Now guess what..... Mary is saying she's having the EXACT same. But wouldnt that of happened during her first pregnancy (With the blood thing) but Mickeys it genetic.... and it happened to her mum in both pregnancies and stuff....
Mary is Anything you can do I can do better.
Its like if your washing machine is broken and you have a 2 yr old son you'd do ANYTHING to get it fixed so your Son had clean clothes... Nope not Mary, she asked her dad to buy her a new onee said NO so she said well say bye to Austin then? but she still hasnt got one, and I saidd why not try charities they have Tons and they will sort you out. No she said I want a brand new one alright, its nothing to do with you anyways... so her mum does her washing which gets so dirty it broke her mums washing machine... she laughed.
Oh and in winter we had SO much snow and Ice, Mary's mum slipped and broke her foot... she could walk for about 12 weeks. So Mary's mum said she couldnt have Austin untill her Cast is off her foot.. Mary didnt like that, and said she was selfish and she did it on purpose, so mary couldnt go out on everynight and on weekends. But mary found a way to go out, and so no one saw Austin for 12 weeks, she didnt even ask how her own mum was. Oh, when she did bring Austin round whilst her mum was in Cast she went out for an Hour and left austin with her mum even though she couldnt walk, but stil didnt ask how she was or say thank you.
She uses her Son as a weapon... if she doesnt get her own way she will say you cant see him then.... and its not fair.
As you all know I was bleeding Thursday Evening after moving my room around, so I think I tore something, So I text her yesterday asking if her other half was around to help John move his Animals out of her house because she is killing them on purpose even though she offered to have them after she kicked him out... ANYWAYS she said he's asleep even though he wasnt... we asked him when we got there he said he'll be done in a sec (On his game) she was like you aint F****** helping them, they can do it themselves... she's lying about her bleeding and stuff anyways I bet she aint even pregnant she's jealous because Im pregnant so she's making it up and she'll miscarry in a few weeks cause we wasnt really pregnant. So me and John moved them ( I nearly fainted) she laughed and said im pathetic and started bitching to her mates about us saying im lying and stuff and my otherhalf doesnt actually want to be with me... John heard all this and went mad at her saying shut up and stuff.... after we moved the Animals we could and the ones that will fit in the car she went to john you owe me £400? when he owes her £10? for electric money, so he told her to F*** off that his money is going on the baby now because he's going to be a good Dad. And she laughed....
Now I am currently pregnant she is saying im going to be rubbish and dump my kid on everyone and its going to get taken away from me cause I killled my first baby.....
there is SO much more, i'd be here for the rest of my life.
She puts me down and there's nothing I can do now because if I say something the rest of the family lose out on seeing Austin, all because I stood up for myself and my boyfriend and his family. She even puts her Brother Andrew down saying he;s going to be a rubbish dad and thhings and he should follow in her foot steps cause she's a great mum. ?????... Who is out everynight and leaves her Son with every Tom **** and Harry?....
She apprently has very bad panic attacks (Shes never had one in her life) and cant leave her house... But can leave it to go to the pub... And she contridicts herself...
Anywayss
She had a go at John because we didnt tell her... (We actually only told our parents only because of the miscarrige she said she didnt care she should have been one of the first to know)
I dont know what to do, Everyone is thinking the same as me and should tell her to just bugger off, But Im so close to tears everyday because she puts me down, i suffer from depression and if that gets too bad Ill have a relapse with my Anorexia. Im in Danger of my baby if this happens so Im trying not to let it bother me which is why im letting it out on here.... but its actually getting TOO much and im scared this will happen.....
I dont see how anything I do with my life should be any of her business... and why she needs to know EVERYTHING that goes on with me and John and now peanut... (Our baby) but she DEMANDS it.
Shall I say something to her.. Or brush everything she says off??
Because I fear for my baby because she is going to stress me out so much and upset me I might relapse
HELP ME PLEASE!
Thank you.
xx
She's 21 so she aint underage she's just useless! I'd rather hit her in the face tbh, and she is pregnant too atm so I dont really wanna hurt her baby more than she is already.
My boyfriend who is Her brother has decided my baby doesnt have an Aunty Mary and that was him. Everyone thinks she MIGHT changed once this baby is born, but I aint holding my breath.
She will always have a baby sitter because she find new friends to come round and have him. or she'll invite people over and stay in but make stupid amounts of noise then moans when he wakes up? My boyfriend doesnt baby sit on Thursdays anymore because she takes the p i s s and doesnt come back untill 1, 2 in the morning and sometimes he has to be up at 4. which means no sleep and he's a bus driver. Hmm Smart. or if he says no she gets in a huff threatens to throw his Animals away which he then gets his back up and everything like that, those Animals mean the world to him their his little hobbly and something he has put alot of time and effort into which is a very big thing for him, His attention span is the size of a baby!!! he gets bored so easily except with his Animals and Airshows and now baby he wont get born of Peanut.
She knows what buttons to push with certain people. And We are waiting for her to see how she treats people because talking to her, either alone or with people so they agreee and things is NOT at all possible because she will throw a fit and be like F u c k you. you dont know anything about me so p i s s off...
So everyone has given up, but she carries on and gets worse!!!
she excepts EVERYONE to be there when SHE WANTS but it doesnt work like that, She;s so spoilt. and she's 21 im sorry but you cant be a mum and want to be 21 everyday at the same time, Its one or the other, yeah going out once every 2 weeks and having time to yourself I TOTALLY AGREE with but not everynight or even if you want to do the weekend thing then one weekend a month! She's a mum she neeeds to grow up but she doesnt understand that, Mickey who is due anyday now and is trying EVERYTHING to go into labour because she is very ill, she saidd when her Daughter is born she can go out with Mary everynight. Personally I think when she see's Mickey and Myself not act our ages 24/7 because we will be mums she might change ? Again im so NOT holding my breath. All her mates who now have kids have actually Moved away from her... to be mums and she just doesnt get it.
I am scared that im not going to be a good mum AT ALL! Although I have 7 brothers and 2 sisters Ive had so much experience with kids and Working with disabled children also (Which was the best time of my life.) Im just scared about the whole thing but I willl be there for my kids.....
Im so scaredd incase she is right and Im going to be pure s h i t
x
My boyfriend who is Her brother has decided my baby doesnt have an Aunty Mary and that was him. Everyone thinks she MIGHT changed once this baby is born, but I aint holding my breath.
She will always have a baby sitter because she find new friends to come round and have him. or she'll invite people over and stay in but make stupid amounts of noise then moans when he wakes up? My boyfriend doesnt baby sit on Thursdays anymore because she takes the p i s s and doesnt come back untill 1, 2 in the morning and sometimes he has to be up at 4. which means no sleep and he's a bus driver. Hmm Smart. or if he says no she gets in a huff threatens to throw his Animals away which he then gets his back up and everything like that, those Animals mean the world to him their his little hobbly and something he has put alot of time and effort into which is a very big thing for him, His attention span is the size of a baby!!! he gets bored so easily except with his Animals and Airshows and now baby he wont get born of Peanut.
She knows what buttons to push with certain people. And We are waiting for her to see how she treats people because talking to her, either alone or with people so they agreee and things is NOT at all possible because she will throw a fit and be like F u c k you. you dont know anything about me so p i s s off...
So everyone has given up, but she carries on and gets worse!!!
she excepts EVERYONE to be there when SHE WANTS but it doesnt work like that, She;s so spoilt. and she's 21 im sorry but you cant be a mum and want to be 21 everyday at the same time, Its one or the other, yeah going out once every 2 weeks and having time to yourself I TOTALLY AGREE with but not everynight or even if you want to do the weekend thing then one weekend a month! She's a mum she neeeds to grow up but she doesnt understand that, Mickey who is due anyday now and is trying EVERYTHING to go into labour because she is very ill, she saidd when her Daughter is born she can go out with Mary everynight. Personally I think when she see's Mickey and Myself not act our ages 24/7 because we will be mums she might change ? Again im so NOT holding my breath. All her mates who now have kids have actually Moved away from her... to be mums and she just doesnt get it.
I am scared that im not going to be a good mum AT ALL! Although I have 7 brothers and 2 sisters Ive had so much experience with kids and Working with disabled children also (Which was the best time of my life.) Im just scared about the whole thing but I willl be there for my kids.....
Im so scaredd incase she is right and Im going to be pure s h i t
x
I have serious anger issues, so you probabaly dont want my opinion on what to do. But ill give it anyway. lol First of all Screw her and I would tell her she dont make a damn difference, and she aint got s h i t to do with you or what you do. And then Secondly with my temper, Id probably hit her in her face a few times, and turn her in for being such a horrible mom. Im sorry but You cant worry about her taking Austin away. She'll get over it when she realizes she has no one else, or needs a baby sitter. I know thats your family, and family s number one, but your real family is that baby in your stomach, you need to be there for him. stand up for yourself and then walk away. do not let her walk all over you, just cause your affraid about what will happen with the rest of the family. You dont deserve to be treated like that.... And you will stress yourself out thinking about all the crap she is doing. If i were you id feel tons better telling her whats up or hitting her a few times! Good luck
I have depression, but I never went through that, but the first thing I would do is 1. if she's underage and drinking, turn her in. 2. If she leaves her son with any person, who knows what could be going on, or what danger he may be in, try to figure out who she leaves him with, when she throws a fit and takes him away for a week or how ever long. 3. Talk it out with her, find her when it can just be the two of you. Maybe, the girl has problems. and if anything doesn't work, talk to your doctor about depression medicine, WHILE BEING PREGNANT, and just try to stay away from her and not listen to her, but if you absolutely have to smile and walk away, don't let her know it's bothering you, she'll keep doing it if she knows it is!
She's not like it to only me its the WHOLE family. Austin wasnt even allowed to see his dad untill 2 months ago, and he look the EXACT look alike of his dad so she cut his hair and stuff to make him look a little different but nah he still looks like his dad. I mean shes trying to pottty train him but not putting him In pants and stuff so when hes at his nans and dads he wears pants and sits on the botty but doesnt know he needs to pull them down he just goes for a wee. Still in his pants and trousers... cause his mum hasnt taught him.
Its just gets my back up she doesnt care about ANYONE but herself.
Next time she says something to ANYONE when im around ill stand up for them, because its getting WAY too much, and shes just so stupid..... and thinks the world revolves around her and it really doesnt!!
shes just so stupid and selfsih and horrible!!!!
Thank you everyone
xx
Its just gets my back up she doesnt care about ANYONE but herself.
Next time she says something to ANYONE when im around ill stand up for them, because its getting WAY too much, and shes just so stupid..... and thinks the world revolves around her and it really doesnt!!
shes just so stupid and selfsih and horrible!!!!
Thank you everyone
xx
The woman sounds like a complete nut job. To put it bluntly you need to tell her to p i s s off.
She is doing it all for attention and using her son as a weapon and is getting exactly what she wants.
I think that whole family should call her bluff about not seeing Austin, and after few months i bet she'd come running back.
Its all threats that she would carry out to get her own way, but after a while when she realises she wont get her own way, she'll come crawling back cos no one will put up with her bull s h i t.
With yourself, I personally would tell her exactly where to shove it and not talk to her anymore, but if it causes you to have an eating condition then you should just have a private word with that side of the family excluding the crazy b i t c h and just explain you are staying well clear of her, esp until your baby is born. Im sure they understand.
If she is saying things about you, then just tell people u dont want to be told, that way you can get stressed over it.
Your husband and your baby are your family, and those are the ones who matter most, so you just need to take it easy and make sure your baby is ok.
My partners mother is a total wacko also, and she certainly put me through my paces when i was pregnant by doing some horrific things, so i certainly understand where u are coming from. My partner got so fed up with it in the end and he cut her out of our lives, and i have to say it was the best thing we could do for the sake of our relationship and safety of our child.
Good luck to you. Oh and if she really wont leave you alone, get a restraining order :-)
She is doing it all for attention and using her son as a weapon and is getting exactly what she wants.
I think that whole family should call her bluff about not seeing Austin, and after few months i bet she'd come running back.
Its all threats that she would carry out to get her own way, but after a while when she realises she wont get her own way, she'll come crawling back cos no one will put up with her bull s h i t.
With yourself, I personally would tell her exactly where to shove it and not talk to her anymore, but if it causes you to have an eating condition then you should just have a private word with that side of the family excluding the crazy b i t c h and just explain you are staying well clear of her, esp until your baby is born. Im sure they understand.
If she is saying things about you, then just tell people u dont want to be told, that way you can get stressed over it.
Your husband and your baby are your family, and those are the ones who matter most, so you just need to take it easy and make sure your baby is ok.
My partners mother is a total wacko also, and she certainly put me through my paces when i was pregnant by doing some horrific things, so i certainly understand where u are coming from. My partner got so fed up with it in the end and he cut her out of our lives, and i have to say it was the best thing we could do for the sake of our relationship and safety of our child.
Good luck to you. Oh and if she really wont leave you alone, get a restraining order :-)
We all try to bite her tongue around her. On Saturday when she dropped Austin off (I made sure I got there an hour after so i knew she left) her mum threatened her, if Austin gets left out she will take him away because Mary's dad is techincally Austins next of Kin after Mary. So he has rights because Austins dad wasnt there because Mary told him she didnt want him around Austin will be better off without him, Now Austin see's his dad every Sunday Ive never seen him so happy (Untill his mum comes, then he crys so hard when he has to go home)....
One day i know its all goin to get too much. All the guys were going fishing (Well the brothers John, Andrew and Clark) Me and Mickey made plans but she couldnt make it because she was SO ill during her pregnancy she couldnt walk and was throwing up after every movement. Mary went oh I suppose I better come out with you and Mickey as I cant go fishing with the Boys... When it was brothers spending time together the only real time those boys spend time together is Christmas day untill Clarks girlfriend turns up.. So it was a big thing. she wanted in, they said no, she used us as a second resort. But Mickey couldnt go so I stayed in. And that was OUR fault and she didnt talk to us for a week (Im not complaining it was heaven) But shes just immature.
She makes me feel such a bad person!!
:(
Thankss
xx
One day i know its all goin to get too much. All the guys were going fishing (Well the brothers John, Andrew and Clark) Me and Mickey made plans but she couldnt make it because she was SO ill during her pregnancy she couldnt walk and was throwing up after every movement. Mary went oh I suppose I better come out with you and Mickey as I cant go fishing with the Boys... When it was brothers spending time together the only real time those boys spend time together is Christmas day untill Clarks girlfriend turns up.. So it was a big thing. she wanted in, they said no, she used us as a second resort. But Mickey couldnt go so I stayed in. And that was OUR fault and she didnt talk to us for a week (Im not complaining it was heaven) But shes just immature.
She makes me feel such a bad person!!
:(
Thankss
xx
You have to keep reminding yourself what kind of person she is and that you are a BETTER person. I know it's hard becuase all you wanna do is jump her sh!t and give her what for. But that wouldnt' make you any better than her. She acts this way and says all these mean and hateful things abuot other people becuase it's easier for her than to accept the fact that faults she finds in OTHERS are really faults within herself. I bet if you could get into that head of hers she lives a very lonely, miserable existence. It will come around one day...when her son resents her, she has no family who gives a rip about her anymore and no friends to pick apart. SHe will be sitting there all alone and wondering "what did i do?" and as she reflects on the past she will realize she brought it ALL DOWN ON HERSELF!!
Keep your head high, bite your tongue and get on with your life. I think that's the BIGGEST slap in the face you can give her...to show her that she doesn't get to you anymore (or atleast maker her think that)
Keep your head high, bite your tongue and get on with your life. I think that's the BIGGEST slap in the face you can give her...to show her that she doesn't get to you anymore (or atleast maker her think that)
If you talk to her she shoves it back in your face. Its like shes currently pregnant and goes to this heavy metal club thing where shes in mosh pits I told her to becareful andbecause she could miscarry if she gets hit in the stomach, I know someone 8 months who got his with a fire escape door by mistake but with ALOT of force and she lost her baby. And she went I dont care with Austin i was hitting my stomach and going to this place he is fine isnt he, i went yeah on the out side, cause you were too busy getting P***** you dont know what its done to his liver and kidneys, she told me to F*** off, I was like sorry for looking out for YOUR Son, At least someone is. She is my boyfriends sister, he's already said Peanut as far as he is concerned DOESNT have an Aunty Mary,. I agreed with NO arguments, Fine by me. She's aint poisoning my baby (its called Peanut because i dont know whats sex it is but I dont want to call peanut IT because Its not an it, its my baby.)
I try to avoid her as much as I can, John tells me to be nice for the Familys sake, when she;s over (Which is never anymore, eventhough she complained about he other brother Clark never coming over, because he was brought up by his Nan because his mum was only 15 and so he looks after her because she is very ill which is fair he pops in when he can) mary now comes to get her son not to spend time with HER family. when she does come I go upstairs with Mickey as we both HATE mary and so does alot of people....
But She's family at the end of the day I guess but shes just so out of order. She has no right to talk about my little sister the way she does either, yeah my sister is ANNOYING but Mary doesnt know her, My sister nearly died and now craves attention by throwing a temper because whilst she was being beaten no one knew because she didnt scream now thats all she does type thing we ignore it.Mary is so harsh about her.
I just get so sad....
Ignore her as much as I can without being immature and stupid like her...
But she always finds a way to put her nose in others business.. and will say something to her mum when you;re in the room but make it a Dig at you and put you down without saying something to your face. I just wanna hit her in hers!
Thank you so much for taking your time and giving your advice I didnt realise it was that long!
Thank you SO much!
x
I try to avoid her as much as I can, John tells me to be nice for the Familys sake, when she;s over (Which is never anymore, eventhough she complained about he other brother Clark never coming over, because he was brought up by his Nan because his mum was only 15 and so he looks after her because she is very ill which is fair he pops in when he can) mary now comes to get her son not to spend time with HER family. when she does come I go upstairs with Mickey as we both HATE mary and so does alot of people....
But She's family at the end of the day I guess but shes just so out of order. She has no right to talk about my little sister the way she does either, yeah my sister is ANNOYING but Mary doesnt know her, My sister nearly died and now craves attention by throwing a temper because whilst she was being beaten no one knew because she didnt scream now thats all she does type thing we ignore it.Mary is so harsh about her.
I just get so sad....
Ignore her as much as I can without being immature and stupid like her...
But she always finds a way to put her nose in others business.. and will say something to her mum when you;re in the room but make it a Dig at you and put you down without saying something to your face. I just wanna hit her in hers!
Thank you so much for taking your time and giving your advice I didnt realise it was that long!
Thank you SO much!
x
I would remove her from your life. You dont need that kind of negativity. Have you tried talking to her about this? That would be my first option and if that doesnt work I would avoid her like the plague. You dont need her bad attitude and immaturity in your life. Good luck and dont stress. She is just jealous!
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