Should I tell him

[Shybug]

Me and my husband been married for 3 horrible years, we have a son thats a yr and or relationship been off and on. Each time I came back we make up with sex and he does the pull out method, as a nurse I know the pull out method doesnt work but for 3 yrs we never got pregnant. My husband recently told me he doesnt love me and wants me and our son out the house and gave us a 4 month grace period. Problem is 2 days ago I missed my period and today took a test and it said pregnant. My husband is a strong beliver the pull out method works.  Im afraid hes going to accuse me of cheating. Should I tell him.

[lilbit_17]

Girl I'd tell him then take his butt to court for child support..... You will get the last laugh in the end :)

[RippedonScotch]

I would tell him and then I'd tell him that if he wants out so badly that he can leave.  You don't need the stress of moving to add into everything else.

[Shybug]

Thank you all so much for the fast response, im so greatful to be able to bring new life but so stressed cause I need to find a place for me and son,. sick to my stomach and dnt feel like arguing and being accused, im a very good women never cheated, just dnt understand why hes doing this to us. He wont even give me my sons records.

[joolschic]

Kick him out...you stay put

[louisekirby]

hes going to chuck u out with ur child what the hell hes a knob. how can he possibley think thats ok. as for the pregnacy congrates. he can't think that its not his child loads of people get preg from pre c.u.m. if he dont believe u get a dna test when babys born and rub it in his face hel soon feel bad for not beliving u. good luck. x

[sehale]

Personally, I'd tell him. I'd also make him pay child support for the son you already have, and make him start paying more once the new baby is born. If he really doesn't believe the baby is his, get a DNA test to prove it.

[Spiket77]

Tell him. If he acts like a jerk then do a DNA test once  the child is born. I'm sorry.... this should be a joyful occasion. Be strong and I hope he surprises you and is supportive to you and the child.

[jamesruss1]

wow...this is a hard one to answer...well your husbands and ******* but its your choice and if you tell him and he still kicks you out take his *** to court.