I think she might have made a big deal about it becuase they themselves (drs) try not to check too much during labor because it can cause infection. I learned this when my sister had her baby last month. So i would just leave it for the doctors to do just to be safe.
I am exactly the same as you..second pregnancy not quite as horrendous as last time..but bad enough..was sick all morning and too scared to move eat or drink..just felt like crying..the constant nausea is just wearing me down..and with my daughter it lasted well past 12-14 weeks but did start to slope off then..i wish so much they could come up with a cure. I love my tiny baby so much..but the morning sickness is miserable!
I heard so much about zofran they didn't tell me though but I hopeeeeee that's it!!!!!!!!
What is the doctor prescribing you? I got Zofran and omg it saved my life lol