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4182046 tn?1355820039

So heated!!! >:[

So tonight I posted on Facebook a status that says "I feel really bad for some peoples children, some people just shouldn't have kids and it's a damn shame they do"
And this biitchh! Commented on my status and said "lol like you? i fear for your childs future"
Man I am heated! First of all, this woman was a stripper to make money so she can feed her daughter, but got fired from THAT. Secondly, she always posts statuss about how annoying her daughter is (20 months old) she always bashes her daughter, a couple days ago she posted a video and the title was "this is what i have to deal with every fcking morning, what do you guys deal with?" and it was a video of her daughter crying and screaming not wanting to eat her oatmeal. WHY WOULD SHE EVEN DO THAT. She smokes pot around her kid, leaves her kid a lot to go to the mall or drink or whaatever... I'm so heated! And it's not like I'm struggling or anything, im engaged, our relationship is amazing and we TRIED to get pregnant, this wasnt an accident!! Ugh im sooo mad!!
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4182046 tn?1355820039
I know I just told her she can think what she wants but i know damn well what kinda of mother i am and will become, definitely not the kinda to dance naked around a pole for money.
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1984089 tn?1349482899
We need a like button on this page. But i would not pay her any mind action speak louder then words. then if she keeps at it when baby is born put her in her place. Your gonna be an amazing mom as well as every other lady on this site we care for or kids not disrespect them on Facebook when they r too young to defend them selfs i hate people like that and block her after u delete her nasty A SS
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I would report her to child services if u know all this is true I know someone that knew someone who was like that to her kids an she never told anyone so one day the girl stab her child many times she lived but if someone would of spoke up to dcf the child would of never had to go threw that
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I would report her to child services if u know all this is true I know someone that knew someone who was like that to her kids an she never told anyone so one day the girl stab her child many times she lived but if someone would of spoke up to dcf the child would of never had to go threw that
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4368956 tn?1357406071
Do u think she might have thought that u were speaking towards her? Dont let negativity bring u down but she could of thought that since you were posting some people shouldnt have kids, and figured u were speaking to her exspecially if she had a video posted likr that.
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Dont let the nay-sayers get to you girl :) That girl is obviously mad at the world and sounds like shes a single mom, which can be hard. Sounds to me like she has jealousy issues and is rather bitter about life and mommyhood, which are two beautiful things. Its not your fault that she lets her parade her pissed on and looks at the glass half empty. Screw her lol sweep her opinion off into the trash and wear a smile. People like that dont need attention, it feeds their fire. Do you' girl and keep positive :)
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4424188 tn?1355686856
The guilty one always speaks. that should be ur only reply
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4589197 tn?1375223396
I'm so glad I deactivated my facebook, I like people so much more now. And how do you get fired from being a stripper? Don't you just have to be naked? Lol
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Haha well that is true. Hormones get the best of us sometimes lol.
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3185867 tn?1348434443
Now pregnant i cant stand not speaking my mind. So thats y i wuld do that.... -_-
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Personally I think even replying to her is just going to create drama and a big argument, and just appear childish to do so. If you block her, you can't contact each other and she can't even see your profile, so it will never happen again. Just seems more logical to me, but hey, what do I know.
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3185867 tn?1348434443
Iwould post back exactly what u just posted on here.  Id just be like, oh im sorry! Am i gunna be just like u and become a stripper and then complain about about my kid 24/7?  No im not. So y dont u shut the F up!
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I would cry from hormones. But dont worry about her she isnt worth it
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I say delete the ***** and keep it moving sweety. you obviously have a good head on your shoulders and she obviously doesnt!  dont let some low life ignorant comment get you down hun. i hope you feel better!
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This is exactly why I don't have facebook anymore. But since you do, you shouldnt add people that you dont get along with, its like setting yourself up for ignorant comments like that.

I can't believe someone would bash their own child like that especially at such a young age. That is truly sad. Unfortunately nowadays a lot of people think they are mature enough to have sex, but not mature enough to handle the consequences that can come with it. But it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, so I would block her and move on. Haters gonna hate!
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she probably was feeling guilty cuz she knows she's a shi.tty mother
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Don't worry about people like that u CA. Clearly tell she's not a good mom and she had nothing bad she could say about u so she said something she new would make u mad. Ur hormones ate probably making u feel really really hurt by this but u have to let it go. U know u will be a great mom so don't worry. U can add me on facebook If u ever need a friend or advice I'm here.. Veronica justice look me up
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I wouldn't let it bother me,you don't need confirmation from no one about you being a good or bad mother !! You know what you are goin to do for your child and how well your goin to take care of them so her input is irrelevant !! Some ppl say harsh things to make themselves feel betters,if I was you I wouldn't let it get to me !! Facebook is too much drama that's exactly why I don't have one smh !!
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4182046 tn?1355820039
Oh, and financially we are pretty good, my fiance brings home over 4000 dollars monthly after taxes, we have our own house, and I know for a damn fact I will be a wonderful mother. Jeeze!!
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