So much stress...

[Be11al994]

Is it ok to stress out and freak out over not having anything for the baby yet even though im still early in my second trimester and is it normal for me to argue with my baby dad almost ever other day??

[Ninny_]

he for sure needs to get a job.ASAP..babies are anything but cheap. lol

[Be11al994]

That sounds wonderful and like a good idea. I might try that but I'll have to wait till my siblings are sleep and my parents lol. Oh and congratulations on the baby. :)

[Be11al994]

Lol, that's what it is here, all I have is a swaddling blanket, 2 snow suits, and a starter kit that comes with a thermometer, nose cleaner, alcohol pads, a spoon, and some other weird stuff lol but all of that was given to me and I get mad cause I'm trying and he hasn't even told his family nor tried to help buy something and that's why I'm always yelling at him.

[Sadiee18]

I'm 36 weeks and me and my boyfriend finally just got everything we will need. We just got our stroller and carseat today actually. Don't stress. That's all i did this whole pregnancy and it honestly made my depression and everything worse. It'll end up working out. The only thing we don't have yet is a breast pump because I plan on breastfeeding but we can get that after our baby is born. If you're feeling to stressed go take a candle lit bath with your favorite book and just relax. It helps a lot.

[Be11al994]

Thank you and maybe your right, guess I should be there for him like he should be for me.. And baby registry for a baby shower would be nice if I had people to throw me one or even show up lol. But thanks for the advice and thanks for the congrats and congrats to you as well. :)

[Be11al994]

Yea, only problem is neither of us have jobs and dont really have a supportive family nor any type of friends.. :(

[sommerrrr]

I argue with my husband every day over the crib.. he hates cribs for whatever reason. It's so annoying. All we have for the baby is a couple of outfits. Nothing else. He stresses over everything just like me so we fight over the stuff for baby lol

[Ninny_]

Stress is bound to happen..I went through stressing over not having anything yet but just hold out this is a very long process of growing your baby and you have a lot of time to get things my advice is make your baby registry for your shower when I was feeling stress that's what I did I think that we get stressed out because we are so anxious to meet our little ones and take it easy on the baby's father because he doesn't know how you feel and what you're going through and your hormones are normal but dial it down and make sure he knows you love him and not your hormones are crazy not you good luck congratulations take it one day at a time

[cwbaby19]

I think so.  I'm always arguing with my boyfriend.  Im easily irritated and it seems like his IQ has dropped the further along I get.  Maybe my hormones lol.  

The only thing we have is clothes.  Not even all of what we need of them.  You still have time just try to buy things here and there and have a baby shower or two.  You'll be fine :)