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So stressed and confused and worried:,(

I'm fifteen weeks pregnant and I'm so in love with my fiancé. But, I'm really concerned about one thing. I had an (almost) one night stand with a guy I went to school with back on march 13th. my last period was february 26-29. The thing that happened was like three times in and out then I realized what I was doing and told him i didn't want to. So it wasn't full on sex, like the whole thing. But I'm just freaking out about it cuz what if he is the dad from pre ***?! I had sex with my fiancé the 9th and 15th and my fiancé told me he might have caught it too late on the fifteenth. I'm just so stressed, I love my fiancé and I felt so guilty after that one night, I just don't wanna loose him if it turns out not being his kid! Help me please
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2195822 tn?1341056911
I know hun but if he cheated you'd wanna know. He might be thankful of you telling him. Better than lying and hiding it. If you ever need a chat just pop me q message
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Thanks y'all, I guess I have to pay the price for what I did. I'm just so nervous, he's always told me that the one thing he could never get over is me cheating on him and that he'd have to leave, I just know if I tell him, I'm gonna be a pregnant single girl with no job, cuz I work for his mom!! And plus life without him seems impossible:(
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2195822 tn?1341056911
Best thing to do is tell him then a DNA test when baby is born. It's the only way. Hopefully hell appreciate you telling the truth but he has a right to know if the kid he's raising isn't his. Good luck will keep my fingers crossed for you xx
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I'm in the exact same boat except we got married two weeks ago. Im 16 weeks pregnant but me and him weren't together at the time so I was sleeping around. Sounds bad but that's how it was. Till this day I'm still not sure but all we can do is prepare for the worse but hope for the best. Good luck and message me if you need someone to talk to
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