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4105678 tn?1356545271

Still nervous

Im 21 yrs old & will be 20 wks tomorrow with my lil man & I still haven't told my family, I'm so nervous & feel like they will be disappointed & unsupportive esp my parents ...any suggestions?  How did u guys tell ur family?
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4601190 tn?1357338863
My mom hates my husband and i was gonna tell her a few weeks sooner with this one but she did the same  thing (u guys def dont need more kids, ur husband needs too grow up first) so id get mad & not say anything. Then i couldnt take it anymore.
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4562329 tn?1363818660
I told my mom first she was happy she could hit a back flip. Then i told my dad when i was 20 weeks he was disappointed then he got over it when i told him i dont nerd anything but support. He was just worried thats all. But i have not told him the sex yet. So he will be excited because in my house more girls than boys now its like that with his grandkids finally.
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Im 17yrs old nd had my bby almost 2 mnths ago i really just asked my mom to buy me a pregnancy test and she did she was so happy wen it came out positive since is her first grandbby and i had a misscarage before  im turnin 18 in a couple of days .. my advice just tell it how ever comes out via txt,cell or in person if the bby is there first grandbaby they are goin to get over it fast (: ... good luck'
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4105678 tn?1356545271
I wish my parents would react like yours they are so mean & don't really care for my bf so that's another thing smh I think I'm goin just out & say it they will have more time get over it.. crazy thing is my sis who is older  has 2 kids & my mom didn't down talk her she dropped out in 11th grade with my 1st nephew than finally got her own place but I get all the rudeness & i work full time, have place with my bf, & a college student
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At least yu have yur place and yu work so wouldnt be so nervous bc yur not living with them so yu could just tell them they will get over it ..
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4105678 tn?1356545271
Yea u right I need get it over with
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