i feel like im reaching my breaking point

[Neesha_]

I just feel really STRESSED out. I feel like im all alone, Well my family is very supportive but my child father is not. We were dating for 2year during that time are relationship was really rocky i was getting verbally abused really bad always getting accused of cheating etc now im pregnant but don't wanna be with him. He claims he will change but i know darn well he not so i won't get back with him nd he GET very mad nd disrespectful. I just won't my daughter to have a father in her life but im tired of crying nd getting my feelings hurt. Would i be wrong if i just cut him OFF i really don't know what to do. I feel like i would end of loosing my child with all this stress mins your im at high risk.

[Neesha_]

Thanks for the advice hun:)

[Cassie_rondo]

I think the biggest problem is he's way older than you. Sometimes it's hard to maintain a relationship like that when someone is 10 years older than you. They feel like there always rite and there more mature which is not always the case. Trust me he will try to out smart you. But just stand your ground and stay strong and act like you don't need him even if you feel you do. Trust you and your child will be more than okay just keep yi it faith and stand your ground.

[Neesha_]

Thanks so much for the advice its messed up that we have to go through such bull.

[Jessicah_214]

I Went Thru The Exact Same Thing With My First Kid Her Father Cussed Me Out Was Cheating On Me With Some Other Girl He Never Went To None Of My Appointments He Literally Cussed My Mom & He Told Her I Was Ho3 & Then He Denied Her So I Stop Having Communication With Him One Day He Had The Nerve To Ask For My Baby When He Never Cared Know My Baby Has A Real Father Who Loves Her & Cares For My Advice To You Is If He Is Being Like That With You Leave Him You Don't Need That Sh1t In Your Life Or In Your Babies If You See No Change At All Boot Him Sooner Or Later You Will Find Some One Who Cares & Loves You & Your Baby

[Neesha_]

Right my mom says f him but she not understanding that yu do need your child father loving sometimes i.have my needs too nd i think that's where he get confused. Nd omg money i ask him for $50 he started treating me saying ask my parents nd we not together so f off lol etc then im like i just wanted to see what yu was gone say its tax season my 3RACKS will be here soon now he is trying be all nice like didn't yu just say f my pregnancy nd stuff ugh

[yami93]

I how you feel I love my baby daddy but I got to a point that money has be come a problem and I am tired I had help him but I think am done I don't want to cry anymore but the thing is I am alone I don't have anybody to lean on

[Neesha_]

This is so hard im only 20 nd he is 30 i would think he wouldn't act like this. I never ever thought i would do this alone. And SOMEONE that claims they love yu but disrespect yu is very sad he told me he doesn't care about me being pregnant and don't care about me. Ugh i sometimes i began ti feel stress. I went a month without talking to him before and it felt great but i just wont to share my experience with the person that helped make the baby you kno it's hard to let go of someone you love but i.guess i have to do wats best for my little girl

[Cindy0624]

Im goin through the same thingg but i was with my bay father for 5 yrs. now he comes n goes as he pleases n disrespects me. I try my very best to not think bout it n leave him alone cuz it isnt worth it. We stress,the baby feels it. I feel alone also cuz its like u want dat person to go through it all with u, but i rememba how can we be alone when we got alittle angel growin inside of us. Ur goin to have to deal with yur baby father for the rest of ur life so its time to put ur foot down n set boundaries. If it means cuttin him off den do it, ur baby is wat matters not him.