Stressed. Worn out

[gm1031]

I know this has nothing to do with my pregnancy. I just need to vent. My husband is bi polar and adhd. He threatens me if i leave him he will never let me have our baby im 18wks. Hes pulled my hair, jumps on top of me, tries to bite me, holds my face, chokes my dog till he doesnt breathe, hits me with pillows. I have punched him for twisting and holding my arm while spitting and holding me down till he let my arm go. Im sure we will argue again tonight he is pissed. I am scared of him hurting me and i lose the baby

[armywife1020]

If i were u i will leave him and like all the girls said go get the help there is many resources that can help u and ur lil one. Dnt b scared god is with u ans so are we. I hate that women like you get abuse like that and especially wid a baby on da way. Tak care and plz reach out to any of us if u need a push to finally get out of that misery. Think abt ur babys safety and urs.... Im sure ur mom will tak u in again... Be positive and dnt let him push u around.

[stacey10]

dont be embarrased for reaching out for support and advice, you need to put the needs of yourself and your baby first, you need to have a safe environment for both you and your baby, your husband is sick, but it is still not acceptable what he is doing to you, even if you have to sneak under the radar until the 17, do that and do not give him any idea of what your planning to do, go about your daily rountine and dont change a thing, its better for you and bub if he has no idea of what your thinking of doing, you need to do this and you and bub deserve a better life

[Clysta]

This is only going to get worse and he WILL make threats because he knows you will stay. If he honestly wanted to kill himself he would have gone and done it. My dad did the same BS to us when my mom tried to leave and she fell for it - because of that my sister and I paid the price and spent 15 years abused sexually and physically. He's proven he is abusive and unstable, don't think he won't be the same way to your child. There are dozens of ways to protect yourself, you just need to find and use them.

[mumstheword2202]

All i can say is do everything you can to protect & save your baby from any harm. After losing my own son its so hard to know that i could have done so much more to keep him here. You'll regret it forever if you dont do something now. You should leave.

[gm1031]

I start school jan 17. That is a great idea. I doubt he will hold his tantrum that long. He got mad that i had the flu and kept moving cause my body hurt and i couldnt get comfortable. I will keep you guys posted on how things turn out. Grinding my teeth :(

[gm1031]

Thank you for all the support. It gives me courage. I have called a shelter they have our address. I live in san antonio tx i dont know what helps here. Its embarrassing to have to tell others how the one you married is treating you. Going to clean so he might not be pushy or shovey. Thanks. God bless you ladies and your pregnancies.