Support?... please..

[everley2014]

Ladies. I just need some words of encouragement. I'm 16 I'm 12 weeks 3 days and I feel I'm in this alone. My baby daddy has already told me to "kill it" plenty of times. He doesn't seem to care. He's already thrown in my face that his dad would pay for an abortion. He said he doesn't want this baby. The day I heard the heartbeat, I was so happy. So excited. And that's the day he told me to kill my baby. I hate him right now. I looked up when is the latest youcan have an aabortion in Texas, just to see what he'd say because he seemed more supportive.. but then he just told me "look up Dallas abortion clinic, they don't turn anyone down." I just feel hurt. It's like sometimes he wants this baby sometimes he doesn't. I don't know what to feel right now but I just need someone to be there for me :/

[everley2014]

Thanks ladies. I'm definitely against abortion. It's not something I would do, no matter who was telling me to. This baby truly is a blessing. It's the only reason my baby daddy is out of jail. Long story. But for him to tell me to kill it just tore at my heart so badly. And I'm in Arlington :)

[mommyofalibra]

I'm in Texas too, about an hour or so from Dallas. I'm 21 and I'm 16 weeks, 3 days pregnant with my first. Baby girl, your baby is a blessing regardless. I personally don't like abortion but i also don't judge whatsoever. I encourage you to think of all your options and whatever it is make sure it's what you wanna do and not because him, your family, or anyone on here wants you to do it. I wish you the best of luck, and whatever you decide, you'll learn from it and it'll make you better. And congrats on your baby :)

[lovemia28]

Don't listen to that stupid! Don't let none tell you what to do. GOD gives to ous the blessed to give life but just GOD can take it! :-) I hope you the best! You got a new friends
I from Duncanville but now I live inFort worth. :)

[Dianyleexo]

Honey your not in this alone. The lord see's your pain and struggle , I know its a terrible thing for your baby daddy to tell you somethin like that trust I know alot of women would feel just the way your feeling now. Your baby was not a mistake wether it was planned or not the lord has blessed you with a gift for a purpose . Do whats best for you but please think it well through just because your baby daddy wants it dead doesnt mean you want it dead. You both decided to make love now he needs to man up about it and take care of his kid . This is when reality takes place.  And if he does not want to be there ? That is his loss.  If he decides to come back around then amen. Dio sabe todo. God knows everything he knit that baby inside of you . Just know that there is a life a precious life inside of you thats going to change your life for the better yes your young and its very hard at your age   but look im 18 and pregnant with my husband and I cant thank the lord enough for this blessing. Mama take it easy your not alone all things will fall into place for tthe better he gave u that baby for a reason and just think of it like this not alot of people are out into your life to stay there but your baby will always remain you baby.  No matter what so take it easy and be strong because I know you are. Just wait until u see your baby in your arms you wont regret it  

[HannahJohnson]

Hes Terrible. Dont let him ruin this beautiful moment for you. Enjoy your pregnancy.  I think you should stay away from him.

[nikki1214]

Don't let anyone force you to do anything you don't want to. If you want to keep the baby it might be hard but you can find a way to support the two of you. If you choose adoption that will be just as hard. But to give a couple and a child the gift  of life....the both will be ever so great-full to you. If you choose abortion do it for the right reasons.... I won't tell you my personal opinion on the subject but remember there are other options out there then "killing it". Sorry for my bluntness.

[Allocate]

Girl don't listen to him. To me he sounds like a ****. You do what you want to do. My bd is threatening to take my daughter away from me once she is born, but I know that he cant. Just do what you want, not what he wants.

[mitch_14]

You do whatever is best for you and what you want. Don't let anyone pressure you to keep or abort a baby if you do something because it's what other people want and not what you want you will never be happy...