Aa
i need some advice..
Ok well I'm no longer with the guy who is the father of the baby and i havent been for a while.. And im happy because he made me feel horrible.. But back in June I had gone on this date with this guy I have known since summer studio and it was amazing! And ive liked him for a while its jusr we have never been single at the same time until now.. And he knows im pregnant and he knows everything that has happened with me and my ex and he still wants to go out and hang out and do things along those lines.. And I really like him but I feel as if Im a horrible person if I like him with a baby on the way even though he is understanding about everything..I'm just not sure what to do..
It's good to know not all girls worry about the father like they wanna stay with them if they are a jerk. You sound like you have a good head on you shoulders.
Do you mind if I ask how old you are I was just curious if anyone is near my age? But no the same this is with me plus I doubt the dad cares much about except sex. I'm talking to 2 guys nothing really serious both of them say that they don't mind so I'm just getting to knkw them. It doesn't sound like you are rushing with the guy so that sounds good. Your aloud to be happy.:) I am actually talking to a guy who has a child already but the girl left him but he loves his kid. :)
Thank you everyone :) i think I'll give it a try i really do appreciate everyone input it helped allot :)
You deserve happiness. Do not feel horrible. If you brought your child in to an environment where the father treated you horrible that would be a mistake. But having the courage to not only leave the man but move on in a healthy way is a great thing. I think you should go for what makes you happy. Give this guy a true chance, who knows it may turn out better than you even expect. Good luck in the love department and with your little one (:
If he is okay about everything then go for it. Some guys don't want to deal with all that so your lucky that he is so understanding. Just because you are pregnant doesn't mean you need to put off dating.
If he makes you happy and supports you emotionally, then i dont see anything wrong with that. You deserve someone to treat you well (: please be independant for yourself though, having a baby really changes a relationship with someone!
I say go ahead. Its a fun way to release stress if he willing to accept you with a baby that takes a lot in a man. Plus you gain a friend
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