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13864745 tn?1443685231

Terrified

I am a first time mom. I am currently 33 weeks, seems like these weeks are flying by. The closer I get the more scared I get. Don't get me wrong, I'm excited to meet my Aidyn but the pain & I might be at the hospital alone is what's scaring me. Having to be strong enough to possibly give birth to him alone. P.s. the father is not allowed to be around me for legal reasons & my mother passed when I was young & my family did nothing but abuse me when I was younger & mean no good so no I don't really have a support system. Any encouraging words or anyone going through the same thing??? I'm in tears right now & can't sleep. I should be asleep. Have school & work in a few hours 18 hour day ahead of me.
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Stay strong. Think positive! Remember Jesus loves you and HE is your support system. Just remind yourself of that little angelic face of your baby. Everything will be okay. Wont be easy but you seem strong, anxiety and fear is just trying to get to you. Xoxo
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13864745 tn?1443685231
Thank you ladies! I just hope I am in class of something when it happens & not completely alone. I have no idea what to expect., another reason I'm nervous.  
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It's sad to think about and I'm sad for you, you don't happen to get along with anyone on the father's side of the family? Or a friend of yours? Maybe a coworker you really get along with at work? I mean nurses will be there for you 100% but I know it feels much better when you have someone you know by your side. It will be okay. I promise.
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That baby will be the start of new happy life , ;) .. He sure would be there for u every single day
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Focus on ur bundle of joy on the way.. it will all be worth it and u will be okay. Stay strong for yourself and the baby. Sending prayers
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Aww you poor thing.. Just keep in mind you'll finally have an unconditional love after you give birth to your baby
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Im sending prayers your way .... If you would like to email and need some one to talk to let me know ill be more them willing to give you mine .... God bless  "  you . get some rest
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