boyfriend problems

[xocheyxo12]

Im 21 weeks pregnant, my boyfriend is saying he wants a DNA test because he thinks I was unfaithful which is fine because even though ik I havent been he still thinks it. Although we have been together 3 years I find him hiding his phone from me often and having a lot of trust issues. He doesnt understand the fact that I cant control my horomones and when I get upset he gets more mad and says I need to change ik he sounds like an ******* and I get that but right now im stuck in between if I should stay or leave because hes been telling others hes just scared and doesnt want me to leave but he cant tell me his feelings and all we do is fight does anyone have an idea of what I should do?

[keidaboo]

In all honesty most men asks for DNA test just for a piece of mind because in the past they may have had a couple of females put a baby on them & come to find out it wasn't theirs. Don't be mad at him you may never know what happened before you all got together, some men are embarrassed when they're fooled & don't like talking about it. If you know you weren't cheating then having one shouldn't be a problem. I wish you all the best of luck with your baby :)

[momy2be1215]

DNA TEST ?? Yes if my man asked me for a DNA test I'd leave his stupid asss right after I give him the results  relationships are about trust if you think I'm fkng some one else then you shouldn't be with me period point blank

[kathlenn]

your partner is so WEAK! sorry for my term mom, he just make an issue to have a DNA testing, dont rude yourself with that kind of guy, i know it would be hard for you mom mostly at this time because you carrying a child which is the father was not supposed want it. Ugh!
keep things right mom, its all HIS lost and not YOURS. continue raising your kid even if he has an pathetic thinking for that. you can still enjoy your pregnancy stage with or without him .

[kathlenn]

your partner is so WEAK! sorry for my term mom, he just make an issue to have a DNA testing, dont rude yourself with that kind of guy, i know it would be hard for you mom mostly at this time because you carrying a child which is the father was not supposed want it. Ugh!
keep things right mom, its all HIS lost and not YOURS. continue raising your kid even if he has an pathetic thinking for that. you can still enjoy hour pregnancy stage with or without him .

[Nov_miracle2014]

Boy I Thought I Was The Only One Going ThroughThis, Its My First Child And I'm Determined To Not Let His Being An *** Steal My PrideAnd Joy.

[swankyredz]

Same thing with me my heart wanna go but i stay cuz of baby....i say if its not meant 2b eventually i get d courage an go give it time see wat happens

[rose2014]

I have been thru the same thing.im 29 weeks and everyone says he will change. Let me tell you right now, I left him several months ago and it was the BEST choice I have ever made. Im not stressed as much and my blood pressure is so much better.everyone says its because there nervous but thats a lie in so many cases.just because they are nervous or scared does not meen they should be an a** all the time. I but up with my man hiding his phone and talking to other girls for 2 years off and on and at some point you have to ask yourself is this err vendor worth it? And does my baby deserve to see his parents fighting all the time because someone doesn't want to be faithful? It was a hard decision I made but leaving him has made me a lot happier with my life.

[mommyinfebruary]

Same boat. I have left him and I was upset bc I missed him then he said "oh I'll change and I love u" so I fell for it. My boyfriend is 20 and I'm 21 so I feel his age maturity has a lot to blame for how he is. Also our pregnancy was a surprise and we have always had trust issues from the first year. We live together so it's harder to leave now. I'm hoping when baby is here he will treat me better. I also worry I might be over thinking or being dramatic bc of my hormones.

[Jayden_baby_2014]

Maybe he's the one seeing others or he may just be an Lil sacred and your hormones are going to get worst have him go with you to one of you obyn apt your Dr. Can help him get what your going to go thew  

[xocheyxo12]

Yeah ive left and came back and it still seems like nothings changing but I feel like such a ****** person if I leave but at the same time if I stay its just constant problems and being unhappy :/

[mommyinfebruary]

Sounds like my situation besides the dna test. I'm 16 weeks pregnant and it seems like since we found out he has gotten distant. Everything he does irritates me and I know it's just hormones.  When I get upset he gets mad at me asking me what is my f***ing problem. After 3 years and this being our first idk if I should leave or stay. His friends say he is just nervous and doesn't know how to approach me and care since he isn't emotionally and mentally stable now himself with the news of a baby. I say give it time and if no change then they aren't good for us.