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[mccree_simmons2]

My husband is incarcerated and will be when I go have the baby do you guys think it's rude that I don't want to send him pics to prison??

[mccree_simmons2]

He plans on being there for her and I understand its his kid but he's going to be gone a while and I feel like there is s time to grow up and take responsibility for your actions and he should have thought about how they were going to affect our kids before wanting to be in the streets

[3808614351181240411_413_5]

i would send him some.. i mean its his child too

[dremarie13]

If i was in your shoes, depending on the situation i would send him picks only if he plans on wanting to be apart of the baby's life when he gets out. I think it's important for him to know his baby. But if he's no good for you or your baby and you see him not wanting to be there or show support whether he's in or out then i wouldn't. I've been threw this with family members and friends so i kinda feel what you might be going through but whatever you feel is right at the end

[mccree_simmons2]

Thank you and I feel the same way maybe next time he will think twice about his actions

[anessakayla18]

My mother didn't send pictures of me to my father when I was born and he was in prison. She felt that if he wanted to be there he would have made better choices and it was his fault he wouldn't be there. I have no idea if the same thing is true for your baby's father! That was just my mother's reasoning and I completely agree it's not rude at all!