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8905192 tn?1400610778

Today just isnt my day

So my boyfriend says he doesnt work today yesterday but then he says hes working because he isnt home but he leaves his working shoes hes a cook and you need thoses shoes not outside shoes , he didnt know that I heard him on the phone before he left and it was a female :c , im just upset because what happens if hes cheating ? Were having a baby and I feel like I dont wanna marry him now because he wants to get married fml
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8730486 tn?1400035632
Awe im so sorry! I think you should know what he is doing though... maybe the truth will help you decide if it worth getting married with him, or even being with him period.
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I would straight up ask him why he felt the need to lie to you and if he has someone on the other side he needs to tell you
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6387609 tn?1393274731
Id Get In The Car And Follow Him So He Don't Notice Then You Will Know ....
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Find out what he is doing! I am like a CSI detective when it comes to stuff like that lol and I learned to not hold what I found in and to let him know because I dnt have time for the games. Once you confront him give him his options and keep it moving that's what I had to do. The truth hurts but not as bad as being lied to and you knowing he's lying.
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Awww hunny im so sorry :( what did he say he was doing then if he admitted he isnt working
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8919982 tn?1400717187
Dont call him out on it his only going to deny it...make a fake lunch for him and go by their and tell him hey sweety since we are going tob one happy family I decided to do ssomething nice as in give him lunch once u got that plan in mind and it comes out to b his not at work call him hey bae I went by ur job to give u lunch. Dobt sound insecure make him feel like **** dont argue because that would b an excuse for him to leave if his at work make him feel wanted y do I say this from ur past post u guys argue he does it to get a reaction from u since u want him their his trying to pull away from u because his not ready
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U need to know the truth. Dry them tears put on them big girl painties and demand respect. U are strong. U deserve to know
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For yourself, you need to know the rest. It can be really hard, i know. But you don't want to wonder what if. Get the whole story
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Ask him what female he was conversating with on the phone. Tell him to be honest and stop lieing to you.
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Take a picture of his work boots, send it to him and say, arent you forgetting something for your day off ?

If he trys to over explain himself make him take a picture and send it to you, where he is at, at that verymoment.  He will do it with no prob if he is at work.  

Ive done that to by bf when i didnt believe him lol
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8905192 tn?1400610778
He just admitted he isnt working :(
I cant stop crying I dont even wanna know the rest
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Welp its time to sit down and talk with him. Our (women) intuition is hardly wrong. Demand respect and the truth. Just be ready to hear the truth
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Ask him about it? Don't let him think your stupid especially if you know he's leaving behind things he needs to go to work.
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