Tyying to get stuff off my mind

[Babyg92]

My bays daddy is dark skin (not black) like dark skin mexican. And I am tan mexican. Will my baby come out super dark? Since its both of us put together? Im gonna love my b aby no matter what but I just wanna see my baby already I need it more then anything through this rough time. I feel so hurt and upset. I feel like 5 years was nothing for my babys daddy and he treats me like trash. I cant stop crying and I cant even eat right anymore. I need serious help.

[JLewis12]

I went threw ths w my last child by the Mexican guy I cried all day for the last four mnths of my pregnacy I wudnt eat I just sat in my room nd cried cried nd cried nd ill tell u now I regret doin it because she came out an emotional wreck she was so insecure if a man even looked at her she wud scream nd cry I Cud not leave her side or she wud go crazy I got w my husband whn she was 8weeks old nd she is now almost 8 nd she is just now growing out of it whn I leave her at school she cries I had to homeschool her her 1st grade yr she stl won't spend the night away from home nd everyone warned me that whn I was prego she Cud feel me crying nd in pain nd I wudnt listen to neone I blame myself everyday for her insecurites nd I pray everynight ... Maybe u need to get counceling or go take a class at a community college or go to a local church nd get involved w a group there nethng to get ur mind off of him cuz I promise u will get over it but ur emotions r guna effect ur child nd I pray u dnt go threw wht I had to go threw to build up my daughters confidence... Gud luck hun  

[Babyg92]

He wont take me back anymore. I have dreams my baby looks just like me.

[Nellyzz]

im curious too lol im light tan my man is realllly white so I think I might get a white slightly tinted child. I keep telling him I wish he was black so we could have a black baby they are soooooo gorgeous!!!! sux about ur ex. u really need to try and eat for bubz..I've gone through break upz I know how hard it is. is there nooo chance you can get back together and sort it out? or is it over. if so id do what u can to get on with it..get support needed from mum and other family.. all the best!

[scillacts]

My husband is dark Mexican & I'm tan light complected & my 1st son came out light complected. I'm hoping my 2nd will be dark lol

[Babyg92]

My baby will be the most gorgeous bay ever because I jus know so. I wont see him/her yet but I know my baby is gorgeous. I just want them here because I feel so alone and l. I know im hurting them by vrying so much. I try to stop ut I feel so sad and hurt. And it because its dad treats me like crap when all I did was love him for 5 years. He knowsim pregnant why couldnt he do this after the baby was born.

[JLewis12]

I am mixed w blk nd white nd I have three kids w a Mexican nd they all look pure Mexican can't tell they r mixed w three races at all I'm dark nd he's pretty light then I have three kids w a light skin blk guy nd my kids by him look full blk thn he has a bby w a white grl nd his daughter looks white except her kinky hair so Idk I thnk there is really no guessing it just depends how dominant his genes r if he looks more like his mom thn his dad then that means his jeans r weak so bby wud tend to b mre ur color but me nd my Bro r completly diff colors nd we have same mom nd dad he's light im dark ... But lol I hope u get the color u want I'm sure no matter the color he/she will b beautiful

[arlandonbloom]

It depends on both of your genetics. I have plenty of friends who are super light skinned (very pale) who's baby's dad's skin color ranged from very dark to darker tan and their babies all came out either looking like the dad, mom, or a nice mix of both. I also have a friend who's baby's dad is dark tan skin, she is tan skin both with dark hair and brown eyes and their baby came out with very pale white skin, blonde hair and blue eyes. My aunt is darker tanned skin with dark hair and her husband was very white with blonde hair and their son came out white skin with red hair, but at age 6ish his hair turned dark. It all depends on the genetics, sometimes it could be frustrating because you wanna know exactly what your baby will look like, but it's all a waiting game. As for your baby's dad, I agree that you should find a counselor or therapist or someone to talk to about it. No one deserves to be treated that way.

[Babyg92]

I have no one. No one understands ans thinks im being emotional. But im really not. Im really hurt and dont understand what I did and why he chose this time when im.pregnant. The only person I can talk to when im sad is him and he said not to talk to him that im on my own. I try to eat but I just throw up from crying so much. I cant see my doctor till thursday. I dont have till thursday. I just want help I dont want to feel like this anymore. Its not fair to me and my baby.

[xolexixo]

And I know your hurting but your baby is depending on you please eat right even if you can't force yourself and don't cry.. It's easier said then done but put your baby before him.. Or your letting him win

[xolexixo]

Do you have people to talk to make you feel better? When I was super depressed mr dr recommended a therapist and it worked for the most part.. Try doing that? Have you thought about one ? Also I think your baby will come out more tan :)