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Ughhhh :(

I jst feel like crap! My bf never wants to cuddle or have sex. I literally feel like i have to beg for either of the two, i know he loves me but i jst dont feel any passion or intimacy between the two. It makes me feel like he's not attracted to me because im so pregnant. I wish he would jst hold me at night & kiss me randomly like the way he used to. I feel so unwanted becuz of this, i don't knw if its my hormones that are making me feel so down about this. The feeling of it makes me cry :'(
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60890 tn?1366358119
My dh doesn't have a problem hugging me but from the moment I'm pregnant until I'm healed after the birth sex is a no go area, he just isn't comfortable with i and i do understand that but its not so great when extra blood to the extremities during pregnancy makes us more horny....hey ho...we're women hey, it's what we do...just get on with it!
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Maybe he is scared of it. Some guys are actually scared to touch their pregnant partner because they don't want to upsetor hurt the baby or even worse... upset or hurt the partner. Males are usually scared out if their mind on how to react toward the partner because they have never.been put in that situation or it makes them just plain out uncomfortable. Ask him about it... there is only one way to find out how they feel about it. :)
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My husband does the same thing it makes me feel like im not wanted but its been like this since before i was prego
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It does & they dont understand that we take things so personal at the moment. Its not hard to cuddle before bed so it makes me insecure when he never bothers.
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1959722 tn?1338778115
I totally understand my husband and I go weeks at a time without having sex and he doesn't snuggle with me like he used to. It ***** I'm sorry
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