VENT!!!!

[Preciosa01]

I sware my husband just pisses me off for fun!
We are staying with my mother for the holidays and its nt like we live in another state we just came to a diffrent part of omaha bt my husband is nagging and nagging about everything ! About my little sister about him wanting to go outside every 10 mins. To smoke pot (which he does) and it just pisses me off once i found out we had a baby on the way i stopped bt im about to b 7 months now and he still wont even lighten up the damn habbit! He acts so childish ! And wants to argue about every damn thing granted hes only 19 bt honestly i know people younger having children and they "man up" whats stopping him ! He doe love me dearly and takes care of me verry well . Bt as a wife i do the same for him i just need a little advise so i dont ruin this cristmas by throwing his *** up the chimney cuz im so done with the b.s

[actright]

Well tell him that if he don't cut down on hes smoking that he ain't gonna be holding the baby cus u know weed stays in ur clothes specially if he smokes all day.

[proudFTMTeTe]

Wen my bf gets around my parents he gets very shy n uncomfortable he still he feels like they may judge him (even tho they won't) its just a male thing ig lol n make him smoke in one part of the house if it brothers u like the basement or one room thats wat I make my bf do

[Preciosa01]

Thank you girls alot bt actright he just smokes all day . And bitchess all day right along with it!!

[proudFTMTeTe]

I agree with chemie to stop smoking he has to want to trying to force him or nag will only make it worse my bf still smokes but it helps him relax from a long day of work so it doesn't bother me his choice his habit we all have bad habits n if he had it wen u met him then don't expect him to change cuz u had to n far as complaining he just wants u to know he really doesn't want to b there which is kinda understandable looking from a young male point of view he is at ur parents house were he Probably can't be himself like he would b at home n prolly a lil uncomfortable just try to b alil understanding n don't pick a argument he won't do anything but become distant the whole time there make him feel comfortable n relax

[actright]

My hubby is 22 and just started smoking duh to real bad head aches so I don't mind it but he dose it in moderation maybe once a day when he gets home from work. Unlike hes freaking brother that smokes all day and even in the house I talked shiiit to him cus I have two boys and they smell it and they say mom it smells like smoke so he stopped doing it. Maybe tell him to cut down on the smoking because the baby will be here soon and u wouldnt want the baby around that smell.

[teregarcalva]

Force him to man up hun. There some guys that won't change because their girlfriends, wives, or who ever aren't enforcing it. I'm not sure if you are since you didn't say. Make him stop smoking pot he's 19 not 14 and with a baby on the way. When my husband does stuff I don't like all I say is no and no more and he understands same thing applies to me. Be strong, stand your ground, and don't give up.

[Chemie07]

Well for the complaining tell him to either suck it up or dont come to you about it. He is probably not thrilled to be there in the first place so he just wants you to know he is miserable.  And for the pot smokeing the only thing i can say is he isnt going to stop unless he wants to. And the more you bring it up the more he will probably do it.