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I feel very awkward and unconfortable with myself.

For a little while now, it seems like the only way I get turned on even to have sex, is when I get a picture in my head of my hubby having sex with another girl, and I feel so awkward about it, is it bc im pregnant?  Bc I am not into girls or bi sexual or anything and I usually would be jealous if I even had like a dream of him cheating and stuff, but if its in like a 3some or me not even involved just watching, makes me so horny, I feel like a sicko :/.. it bothers me a lot bc I cant help it.. I even asked him if we could have a 3some with another girl and see what happens.. and im so comfortable with it! Like a year ago I would have been like he*l no.. is this possible bc im pregnant and hormonal? Will it go away?... its all very strange to me and I wsnns know if its normal.. sorry if its tmi
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Thanks guys :) I feel better now!
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8924846 tn?1410572901
Don't feel silly. I've heard a lot of women talk about how they realized they had certain fantasies while pregnant. Most of them actually continued having the fantasies well after they had their babies. And I do know some women who aren't into women but enjoy threesomes. They don't really enjoy touching or being touched by another woman but they like how their bf/husband reacts to it.
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7765842 tn?1406963224
its a normal part of pregnancy. same as any other part of pregnancy, not all women get it but some do. its like bizzarre dreams and stuff like tht. wouldnt worry at all. dont let it bother you, horemones are everywhere. u know how it is. one day we are on top of the world and the next we feel soo depressed...
honastly wouldnt worry :-)
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But I dont like girl and I never have and ive specially never fantasized about my hubby with someone else I dont think thats right.. and It started when I got pregnant so I figured it had something to do with it? Lol I feel silly
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8924846 tn?1410572901
That is kinda strange. Not sure if its pregnancy related. Maybe its just a fantasy, something you think would be hot but haven't come to terms with? Really not sure honestly. Personally I love women and my bf is the only guy I've actually wanted to be with, but I don't like the idea of another girl being with him. There could be many ways to look at it. My best guess would be like I said a fantasy you haven't come to terms with maybe set off by hormones?
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