Vent/Over thinking?

[MKristine]

Me and my fiance do everything together. He has one week off out of the whole year so for months we had planned to go up north and visit  his family. Now a week before we were supposted to leave all our plans change. He's not going alone. I've only been there 1 other time to meet everyojen once. Now that his brother and his friends want to hang out with him I can't go. They want to have "guy time". I don't have anywhere that I feel confortable going up there. His brother and friends just told him to leave me somewhere while they hang out. He's going to be best man at one of his friends weddinggs and that kind of scares me. I don't want him to drink and drive. I'm almost 7 months pregnant and I just cna't belive that he would go 4 hours a way for a whole week leaving me with no car or anyone to talk to. I tryed telling him how upset it makes me but he didn't seem to care. I hate feeling like this. I want him to have fun and everything and I know with me there that he can't. I just don't want to be alone, I guess. We had everything planned and now, nothing. I just get pushed aside. I don't even feel confortable being here alone. Am I over thinking things? I've been crying all morning because of this. He works almost 24/7. He only gets one day off a week so him having this week off was something I was really looking forward to.

[MKristine]

It sounds like me and you have A LOT in common, lol. He works in the afternoon/all night too. Why are they all in another contry if you don't mind me asking? And I'm glad Im not the only one feeling and goiong through this.

[Aqsash]

I dont like it aswell when my husband goes out with his friends on his day off n leave me alone at home no friends nothing.he is with his friends everyday I only see him when he comes in the morning n when he wakes up in the afternoon to go work.i cant wait till I have the baby n find a job n learn driving n get a car n make friends n have girls time aswell then I wont feel boared.dont worry your fiance will be okay all man r like this.i dont have friends aswell n my family r living in another country im all alone I know how u feel

[MKristine]

I don't have any friends because they all stopped hanging out with me and talkign to me when I found out I am pregnant. My family kicked me out over a year ago and only talk to me when they need something from me. And as for going out on my own, I have no way to get anywhere unless I walk far distances. He's the only one with a car.

[diva275]

You need your own life. How do you have no one to talk to except him? Where's your friends and family? That's not good for a relationship. You both should have outside interests.

[MommyPaws]

you should go out on your own, show him how it feels

[MKristine]

I have tried talking to him about it. He just sayd I'm over reacting. And he's already planning to go out and do stuff without me while he's here. I just feel like I should at least be able to go with him instead of him go alone and me be here alone. I don't have anyone I could talk to other than him and he'd be busy the whole time he's gone so my only sosial interation would seriously be my dog. :/ I feel like I'm looking into it too much. I just needed someone to vent to though. Thanks for reading and everything

[nicolemk]

Maybe you can talk to him about shortening the trip by 2-3 days so you guys will still have time to spend together and he can have his "guy time". He might see this as his last chance to hang out with friends before the baby comes which is why he's pushing to go with the guys...

[MommyPaws]

you should be his number 1 priority right now... not his friends... talk more about it..you're 7 months, you could go into early labor, and if he cares he would either take you with him or stay...

[Salmika]

If he really wants to go i think you should let him. But i think you should go with him. Even if he wants to spend time with his friends which i guess he doesnt get to because of work. He could reserve some time for you.