Venting and mad.

[Tanya0516]

Baby Daddy was supposed to give 200 dollars for groceries on Thursday.   He came home and said van I just give 100 for groceries instead? ?.  I said no, there are 6 of us.  He said I had to pay a bill and only have 100 left.  Fine,  what bill.....I've paid all the bills myself.

Anyway, he only gave 100 dollars.   Then he asked for 40 back to order pizza and I paid we can't order pizza I'm leaving to buy groceries.   As it stands he already had ordered the pizzas so I had no choice to pay for it.  I was freaking fuming.

That left me with 60 dollars for groceries.

I just received my Mat Leave today.   The baby will be here on Friday

So I bought formula and diapers for baby.  I told baby daddy that I needed to buy groceries again.  He said okay give me the money and I'll get it.  

All he bought was hamburger patties, cheese and buns.

Ontop of that he said don't worry about taxi cab fare.  He said he'll pay it.  Now I need to fork over 50 dollars for cab fare.  

To make it even worst I was in the bedroom getting my PJ's ready for the hospital and I found weed.  Since I am sure it was bought with grocery money I flushed it

Now he's mad at me so I told him to screw himself.  I yelled him out of the bedroom.  He's been quiet since and cooking hamburgers.

Did I overreact ?.  He seems to think I did.

[sexiidiiva]

Nope... 6 people . 100 bucks.. wtf.. It's 2 of us and 100 bucks doesn't go that far with us

[joannagonzalez]

Girl it sounds like his still 18 or younger. He don't manage that money right to take care of his family.

[Tashas1st]

Um, no. You did not over react at all. I wont even tell you what i think of him from this post...

[Tanya0516]

I usually spend 800-1000 a month on groceries.   Been that way since 2006.  I usually pay for groceries myself.   He offered 200 then pulled this sh.it.  We both have our own accounts with the same bank.  He won't allow me to handle his money.

[knufrio]

That is absolutely ridiculous! You didn't over react at all. I think from now on you should be the one to handle all the money. My hubby and I have a grocery budget and we budget $250 every 2 weeks for groceries, for just us two! I would be fuming mad if I was you

[nikkirilling]

Hell no u didn't over react. I would of whooped his a##. I'm happy my bf is responsible cause I couldn't be playing that ****

[Tanya0516]

I'm passed the point of pi.ss.ed of, trust me.  I'm trying not to blow my top too much.  I have a bad temper when it comes to stuff like that.
I'm also upset about the cab fare as well.  His mom told me that she'll give me a 100 Walmart card.  She's a sweetheart like that  but honestly she shouldn't have to give me anything because of the stupid stuff he did.

[caligirl2657]

Omg NO u did NOT over react....he needs to grow up

[angelAndDragon]

I wouldn't have been mad just as you were rightfully so. He should have given you grocery money as he said and he needs to realize weed isnt' a priority over food for  your family. Gahhh sounds selfish to me

[LutiousLefty]

I'd have flushed it too! Wth he needs to get his priorities right. Bub comes first before junk food!

[melcarin]

I would've kicked his a.s.s to the curb for just the money. Not to mention he had drugs legal or not medical or not Idk but I'm sorry he shouldn't be blowing money on drugs with a kid on the way.

[pandamomnium]

. . . He left you 60 bucks for groceries for 6 people. No you didnt over react. Anyone would be P.I.S.S.E.D THE F.U.C.K. OFF at that!!!!! Dear god. . . Yeah you handled that crap way better than I would have girl.

[sfl_momma]

No, you're not wrong. Just sounds like his priorities aren't in order and he cant be trusted.