Very sad:(

[mami85]

Im 37+1wks and just lost my grandfather i wanted him to meet my baby but i guess god had other palns in mind and my grandfathers bday is on 12/25.... cant stop crying and now im having alot of abdominal pain :(

[mamaof4410]

Theres nothing for you to feel "bad" about. Yes be sad but dont feel bad. This is something that you had absolutely no control over. Remember him happy and healthy because he wouldnt want you to remember him any other way. Go out tomorrow and get yourself a beautiful outfit. Something that has color to it. Wear that to his services. I promise you it will make you feel better. I did it when I lost my aunt to liver failure when I was 5 months pregnant. I wore a bright pink shirt and everyone said it was very brave to do. Yes because why be sad? I know shes in a better place not suffering. Your grandfather is in a better place. Yes its ok to miss him. Write down how you are feeling. It helps alot.

[mami85]

thanks your words mean alot i cant even sleep and i feel bad cause i know i have to be strong for my lil one in my tummy... :(

[mamaof4410]

Im  sorry for your loss but you need to calm down. Your grandfather wouldnt want you this upset. I know its hurts but now is your chance to CELEBRATE his life not mourn the loss. Think of how he would want you to be right now. Im sure he wouldnt want you upset and crying. He wants you to be happy and healthy and his great grand baby as well. Keep your head up and always remember that even though you cant hear him or see him hes there always with you no matter where you are.