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Very upset
I'm 9.2 weeks pregnant and broke up with my bf babys daddy today and he stole my ultrasound pictures and burnt them I'm so lost I never thought he was like this :( its killed. Me cause I can't replace them :(
That is horrible!!! Like Evie said he's *sshole. Hopefully you can get the pictures back. But honestly hun put him on the back burner don't sweat him its all about this child. The stress and stuff isn't good for the baby. Keep your head up mama!
And I'm really sorry you're hurting. That was really nasty of him and you did the right thing by breaking up with him. I'm sure that you can get new pics though. I bet the hospitals get lots of women asking for replacements because they lost/misplaced them. And ultrasounds are so common these days that I bet it'd be nothing for your doc at your next appt to wheel one into the room to take more pics if for some reason they weren't able to give you replacements.
Oh my gosh, what a total *ss your ex-boyfriend is! Like the other ladies said, I'm sure you can get them replaced. You'll get more too when they do the ultrasound around 20 weeks to measure the anatomy.
I know how you feel about worrying about having two. My almost 2 year old is also special needs and very demanding of my attention. I'm 38 weeks so I'll be there soon. From what I hear from other moms of two (though they all have typical children) is that caring for the baby is a piece of cake compared to the older child. It's not like you're going to have two demanding toddlers at once, caring for the baby will be easy and you'll have those first few months where baby does nothing but eat and sleep to adjust. I hear it's when they're both on the move that it really gets difficult but hopefully by that time caring for your oldest will be easier than it is now.
I know how you feel about worrying about having two. My almost 2 year old is also special needs and very demanding of my attention. I'm 38 weeks so I'll be there soon. From what I hear from other moms of two (though they all have typical children) is that caring for the baby is a piece of cake compared to the older child. It's not like you're going to have two demanding toddlers at once, caring for the baby will be easy and you'll have those first few months where baby does nothing but eat and sleep to adjust. I hear it's when they're both on the move that it really gets difficult but hopefully by that time caring for your oldest will be easier than it is now.
I'm sorry. YOu can do this hun. You really can. I'm so sorry you're having a tough time.. Do you have family to support you? if you ever need a chat you're welcome to pop me a message.
Sorry to hear that. Defiantly ask the doc at your next appt. I'm sure they will be able to
Provide you with something. And keep smiling, be strong and positive.
Provide you with something. And keep smiling, be strong and positive.
It's sooo sorry cause it was his baby too. That is screwed up. But yeah they keep them on file. Just ask them to see...good luck
I'm not takin him back after that it killed me I felt so empty :( this is my second I'm just scared I won't be able handle 2 cause my first is 3 and is special needs care 24/7 has really bad skin. But I couldn't get rid of my baby!!! I saw it movin around and seen its heart beatin and feel in love <3
He sounds nasty. Ask your doc for.more pics they keep copies for themselves. And please. Don't get back with that nasty excuse for a man. After that stunt I wouldn't even put hiim on the birth certificate. I'm sorry you upset..but you will have your actual baby in the end. And pictures won't matter.I hope things het better for you
They don't I had a appt tomoro but he stole them today and burnt him I been cryin all day ain't shopped :( I know I'm stressing out baby asweell but I'm so upset ;(
That is sorry ask the doc next time u go if u can get a pic from ur chart if they have them.
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