Can never get a break

[Lyssa1225]

So my fiancé wants sex all the time and it bugs me cause sometimes I'm just not in the mood to have sex and just want to cuddle and relax at night
And it just becomes too routine for me to do it everyday an sometimes I want a break cause Im sore and he complains like he's being neglected and tells me I'm a bad wife
Any one in the same boat or have any solutions??

[dillonsmommy1228]

This happened to me at the fisrt but there is this article bout sex drives while pregnant and it explains each trimester... my husband said he wishes he would of read that at first bc he felt niglected bc i didn't want sex... but now he's good hes learned something new lol

[Nellyzz]

I got my doc to explain to my bf that I will be tired and not gna want sex all the time and not to stress me out about it cos its not good for the baby. and he listened to the doc! he has been an angel.

[Lyssa1225]

I know he's joking he doesn't say it mean but it hurts my feelings still because I know I'm not a bad wife just cause I won't give up sex
I give in sometimes too when I don't really want it cause I feel bad
Sometimes I just can go without sex, I don't need it to live or breath lol he gets upset and very cranky if I go without it for a week. Says he's sex deprived lol

[Jase_renaye]

Wish my bf was like dat he is kinda nervous b cuz I'm almost 9 mos n he think he is goin to hurt me so he wants to wait a week r two until I'm full term which it doesn't really matter to me at dis point b cuz I lost my sex drive bt he use to be a horn ball b4 my third trimester lol

[Nana_27]

Omg same with me ! He keeps trying and trying and Ieveventually give in -.- even if I'm really not in the mood and when I'm really annoyed and he tries things get bad he gets upupset but then understands I can't wait till I get my sex drive back

[shell132]

I feel same my husband wants sex but he understands when im not in mood because im 36w and it hurts for me to have sex im happy my hubby can understand but maybe you could try talking with him maybe he will come to understand and its not fair for him to ever call you a bad wife

[kmama2011]

We arent sex toys we have needa and deserve to be avle to feel loved and cuddle with our men. He needs to know that a relationship has to be more than sex or it will fail

[Lilseamonkey]

Tell him that he's got two hands and if he doesn't start treating you better about not wanting sex then that's all hell see for a long time lmao. He shouldn't be calling you a bad wife. You're pregnant and it's normal to not want sex all the time just let him know how you feel