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urgent advice***
ok so im 36 weeks n 5 days tommorow with my older girls i never made it to my due date
1st was due december 8th n was born nov24
2nd was do january 13 n was born dec31
my hubby is out of town n we are trying to decide if he should come bck home saturday if he does he will have no way to go bck over to where he was to keep working n we will not know how long he will be without working... we are trying to save up for a car since we dont have any kind of car or truck..
but i also dont have family here n the US only he does but they work n live kind of far so since ive never made it to my due date im afraid baby might be born soon since im already cramping having pressure n feel like pooping i missed this weeks check do to having no ride ... i really would love him to be here for his first babys birth since my oldest arent his and plus he really does help me out alot.... i have no way to go.into my doc or er to see if im dilatin... so please girls any advice...
A)have him stay wheres at
B)have him come home
1st was due december 8th n was born nov24
2nd was do january 13 n was born dec31
my hubby is out of town n we are trying to decide if he should come bck home saturday if he does he will have no way to go bck over to where he was to keep working n we will not know how long he will be without working... we are trying to save up for a car since we dont have any kind of car or truck..
but i also dont have family here n the US only he does but they work n live kind of far so since ive never made it to my due date im afraid baby might be born soon since im already cramping having pressure n feel like pooping i missed this weeks check do to having no ride ... i really would love him to be here for his first babys birth since my oldest arent his and plus he really does help me out alot.... i have no way to go.into my doc or er to see if im dilatin... so please girls any advice...
A)have him stay wheres at
B)have him come home
Aw. I know. I do not let anyone near my baby's. And have anxiety about strangers myself. Im not sure if it is considered a caseworker. But someone will have them until family or you can takeover. Im not sure were you live and how it works may be different. Maybe try looking into it to be safe and very familiar with it. Call the hospital maybe they would know more. No one wants case workers or strangers in their business i understand completely! I really hope it all works out and you do not have to worry about any of this!
CASE WORKER??????
what will they dooo... see i freak.out cuz tmi i went trough a really scary situation that i didnt report it to the cops due to my familys safety... i dnt like strangers dealing with my kids .... n if a case worker sees that i have no one my bbys will freak out if they dnt see me for days especially nights...:'( sometimes i wish i could have her tonight or to
orrow when her dad still has a way of coming
what will they dooo... see i freak.out cuz tmi i went trough a really scary situation that i didnt report it to the cops due to my familys safety... i dnt like strangers dealing with my kids .... n if a case worker sees that i have no one my bbys will freak out if they dnt see me for days especially nights...:'( sometimes i wish i could have her tonight or to
orrow when her dad still has a way of coming
Sweety. Breath. I know your situation is so hard! But try and not stress. Lets be positive and stress free and try and keep that baby in. If you have your baby and kno one can be their for your girlys the emts have a case worker look after them. I know that is a really really scary thought. Being alone is. But your strong you can do this! Please try and relax. I know you no your body better than anyone! But i really hope baby girl stays in till daddy gets home.
well aint life a bisssshhhh...
hubby decided to stay another week over where his working because there is no kind of job he does here..... pfffff... i k.ow we need the money but i hate knowing i have no one here..... to help in that momment of having my bby no one to take my bbys with them.... im about to cry my eyes outttt..... and i know if i have my bby with out him beeing there ill be hurt and pissed at himmm..... and wont be as happy as i tought im always stuck by myself in these 4 walls every single day... :'[ SORRY HAD TO LET IT OUT
hubby decided to stay another week over where his working because there is no kind of job he does here..... pfffff... i k.ow we need the money but i hate knowing i have no one here..... to help in that momment of having my bby no one to take my bbys with them.... im about to cry my eyes outttt..... and i know if i have my bby with out him beeing there ill be hurt and pissed at himmm..... and wont be as happy as i tought im always stuck by myself in these 4 walls every single day... :'[ SORRY HAD TO LET IT OUT
yeah he wants to come but dosent want to miss working... but i told him his other two brothers work in the same company n that maybe just maybe if he tells them he wants to be close but still work because we need the money they might hve him work there nd not in some other city... he said he was gonna ask n if not he dosent know what to do...
n i dont want to tell him to come n not go into labor and be worried about not having a paycheck... n having him stressing all day at home but i also dont want him far cuz i need him to stay here with my other two till maybe one of his homeboys takes him to the er n my girls with his sister in law which she dosent knw how to drive....
im going crazyy n cnt decide
n i dont want to tell him to come n not go into labor and be worried about not having a paycheck... n having him stressing all day at home but i also dont want him far cuz i need him to stay here with my other two till maybe one of his homeboys takes him to the er n my girls with his sister in law which she dosent knw how to drive....
im going crazyy n cnt decide
Wow yea id have him come home u need support and he should be there for the birth and see his child. Have u talked to him to see what he wanted to do?
no nd my mom lives in mexico so she cant come .. im solo dolo in this pregnancy like all my other ones ... but this time i have the chance of having bby ddy there
Yeah id maybe have him come home cuz I would feel horrible if my bf missed it and u cant have ur mom come down with u or something and help u with the kids? Because yea a ambulance isnt gunna take u ur husband and ur 2 kids if u go by that... idk this is hard :/ sorry u have to go threw this he doesn't have enough money to buy a car outthere and drive it home?
my mom thinks ill maybe go labor n delivery the 4 th with that moon change .... shes supporticious (spelled wrong 4 sure) lol
Its hard to say. I personally would have him come home. Id feel bad if my babies daddy wasn't with me when i had her. He's our only income as well. and who knows you may go into labor Saturday ya know.
he wont be able to come... thats why its so hard to decide.. we need the money but its his right to be here n i knw he dosent want to miss his bby girls birth especially knowing i have no way of leaving my bbys sonewhere or some one pick them up if i go into labor ... n obviously the ambulance wont take them with me.... sooi its so hard
... these two days are to decide if he will come bck or stay another week n like ^^^up there ive been having contractions n pressure n cramping ... so i deff know she will be born soon...
this is his first n only child we are planning to have so i wants to be here also...
this is his first n only child we are planning to have so i wants to be here also...
I would let him stay if you aren't having having contractions or any signs of labor. Just because your other babies came early doesn't mean this one will. Every pregnany is different & it's only 2 more days & it sounds like you could use the money espeially with another baby coming.
his about 4-5 hrs away but has no way of coming till saturday that some workers that are done working over there will come bck... n wont be going bck to that place.....
n if he stays over there he wont be able to come due to no car ....
and he does come he will have to work here till i dnt knw when....
n if he stays over there he wont be able to come due to no car ....
and he does come he will have to work here till i dnt knw when....
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