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Womans view is this baby mine?

My gf slept with he ex 31March/1April she said he never c*m at all then she had her cycle the 5 to the 10th and we had unsafe sex from the 10th onwards her ex said hes the dad but he is crazy and a stalker....
So what are the chances the baby is not mine due date 10th jan

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Thank you guys thats what i was think because he last LMP ands scan dates match up with the due date give or take a day or 2 and her bump size is spot on so im really happy
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1806883 tn?1458321004
period
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1806883 tn?1458321004
if you google pregnancy due date claculator and put in her last menstral pewriod the due date comes up with jan 10, so I'm pretty sure its your baby
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What do you mean if she got it a week later???
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@yummymom no, it makes zero difference whether the guy ejaculates or not. If you're not using protection, you can still get pregnant that way.
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When I backdate from her due date it gives probable conception time as April 15-23, but this assumes she got her period a week later than she actually did. Her cycle may be a little longer than the average 28 days. I think it's unlikely that he is the father, but due dates are only an estimate. To be 100% sure you will need DNA.
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1925157 tn?1328929017
If she had her normal period right after she had sex with him it is most likely yours because her body sheads out everything during her period. Still get a DNA test to be safe.
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187316 tn?1386356682
No because there is sperm in pre-*** which is created the whole time during sex.
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Thank guys but she said he didnt ejaculate at all does that make a differences  
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187316 tn?1386356682
Honestly the odds are extremely low that the baby is his. Women get their period and then ovulate. His sperm would have needed to survive through her period and then still fertilize an egg. In perfect conditions sperm can only live for 5 days. Plus based on her due date she would have gotten pregnant the middle of April. Best thing to do to get the guy off your back is get a paternity test. But the odds overall are very highly in your favor.
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Well considering the fact that she did get her period after cheating and everything, the chances of it being her ex's baby and not yours are significantly lower.
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1919944 tn?1322578587
well its hard to tell. i would suggest you get a DNA test on the baby AS SOON AS THE BABY IS BORN and not a second later. id hate for you to get close to the child and then find out its not yours. just tell the nurses and/or doctor that you want a DNA Test before you leave the hospital and they will do it. dont sign the birth certificate until you know for a fact. also tell your girlfriend that you want one. its her fault, and she should understand where your coming from!
~GOOD LUCK TO YOU!
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