How would you feel

[kirsten18]

so my boyfriends ex is staying with him for a few days well she waits for plane tickets to get home or else she would be homeless with a one year old... I obv don't want that but I'm not sure how I feel on the situation..I didn't say anything to him nor will I but how would you feel about it? Me and my bf do not live together ethier....

[Mama_AyBee]

You might know your boyfriend but you don't know his ex and I really don't think it's a bright idea for you to allow him to be staying with his ex while you're not there.  Temptations arise and things happen. Next thing you know 3 months down the line you're having a conversation and he's apologising for cheating on you with his ex while she was over and "it just happened". Please quit being so naive. Go sleep there.  

[ABaker92_USAF]

If you trust him that's great, but I wouldn't trust her. I wouldn't dare ask my ex who I know has a girlfriend to stay with him.

I understand she needs shelter for the baby, but I'd rather her ask him for money for a hotel room than to lay up in his house.

[expectingJrue]

YOU can trust your bf all day.trust no females. Expecially a females that has already had your man.

[cherry1993]

U should stay over there til she is gone and if he says no or something they might be sleeping together she has to have friends or family she can stay with

[kirsten18]

She is not from the area and got kicked out of the place she was staying. Only reason I'm allowing this is for that child....But Im hoping I can trust my bf enough not to do anything! It's just a junk situation and just bothers me

[ABaker92_USAF]

Why do you feel like you can't say anything to him about it? Why does he feel like it's okay for his ex to stay with him? I know she has a child, but why can't he help her get a hotel room?

If I were you I'd be there until she left, but me personally I wouldn't have that situation happen. He should respect you enough to not let another woman that he's dealt with be in his home without you there.

[aac1992]

I wouldn't allow it. It is unacceptable

[RockRose]

I'd offer to have her come live at your house for a few days.

Homeless?  Really?  She doesn't have a single other friend in the area?

That's hard to believe - even an acquaintance would let a woman with a one year old stay at their house for a couple days to keep he off the streets.

[NovemberMomma90]

Is he the father of the child? Because if so, this would make sense. You can always ask that you guys combine a few bucks and put her in a room for the night. But in all honesty,  i personally wouldn't like it but theres a reason hes with you and not with her.

[hollymomma]

I'd be uncomfortable, and my bf knows I would be.. I would give him an ultimatum and make him let yoj stay there as well. I'm all for my bf staying friendly with people he's been with, that shows good character, but thats a line that shouldn't be crossed

[anujanu1]

Thr are no homeless till u have ur cards with u she can have a room no big deal few $ .its not matter of trust but matter of some line a person shd maintain in each relationship

[Jr23861]

Umm no.... if my boyfriends ex wife called and said she'd need a place to stay a few days... it wouldn't be here.  i agree she must have a friend or family to stay with..

[SD_CALI]

Girl if I were u I would get some stuff and move to he's house without even telling him . While she leaves .what if their sleeping together .

[monie2]

Girl yu have good time i wish my boyfriend would

[Hmph16]

Oh heeeeeeeeeelll no lol girl you better be spending the night while she's there. The devil never sleeps

[bibi1993]

**** that i would of simply said that's her problem not yours , get that ***** out of there lol that's just me tho

[Mirandalashae28]

I wouldn't have that lol. Can she not stay with a friend or family? If I were you I would be staying there until she left..