advice?

[saramay2014]

So me and my boyfriend have been together 4 years and the easyest way to go about things would be living together.. well for that to happen my grandpa (adopted father) told me we would have to get married. Im 6 months along... i brought up the subject to nick my boyfriend and he just didnt say anything back. Ive brought it up befor (when i first found out i was prego) and he said we should wait... but this time he just didnt respond. All he said was i love you... im confused by his reaction

[mfayb]

You definitely don't want to pressure him. It will only result in resentment later

[FloridaMommyof2]

By asking him he could see it as the only reason he's marrying you is because you are pregnant. He probably doesn't want people to see that as why y'all want to get married. I saw your post earlier. I've been with mine for 4yrs. We have a 3yr old and I'm 5 months. We decided to wait til 2016 to get married. (I'll be 21 at that point). I'm sure he wants to wait til the timing is right.

[Tarajolly]

Mayb marriage scares him? Or he wants to surprise you and not have someone tell him? I've seen it both ways or mayb he feels to young