advice!!!

[lesly_solis]

So Saturday night I was going thru my bf phone cause I was bored and found out he was messaging a girl. So i confronte him about it and he said he didnt even message the girl and didnt even mean the click the message butoon and that he dont even know the girl okay i dont understand how you click the button without knowing like no it doesnt happen, so i was hurt and sunday morning he was being sweet like nothing happened and well i was hurt i didnt know what to believe so yeah i was being kind of a ***** to him then we are suppose to spend day together and he leaves like if its nothing to be with his friend idk what to do anymore i feel so alone i haven't talked to him all day were both home but its like we are not even here together.

[LittleBee95]

Awee girls. I'm not bothered one bit about my boyfriend talking to/messaging girls. He's not bothered with me talking to/messaging guys either.  Relationships don't work without 200% trust. If you can't trust them...then it's not a great idea to be in a relationship with them :)

[jennifersuedavis]

Oh boy :/ I've learned not to go through my boyfriend's phone because any and everytime i have i found something i didn't like. But im also very sensitive and dont trust anyone so when i see he has messages to a girl i automatically think the worse, even if the messages may just be friends texting i still hate it! And then after seeing it i will be mad an even more insecure. However, he never has denied texting these female friends as urs. If it was just him texting a friend he should have been open about it since he has nothing to hide. He said he didnt mean to push the button to text, did u see actual text messages or was her name just under the recently texted list? I have accidentally clicked on names but my new phone does not put them under recently texted, but my old phone did.