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[sanchiwi89]

Hey guys New here!!
i am 30wk and 4days pregnant and my fiancee has kicked me out on the street over an arguement!
we constantly bickered about his obsession for the xbox and how he did nothing!!!
well now iv had to star again and am so scared im a FTM and have to do this Alone! i have my parents  but it isnt the same! he isnt bothered about the baby or me and im scared that when baby is born he will try n take him!!!

[sanchiwi89]

Jpittman15 it is hard because i fort he loved me but he ia a looser and i can!! Do better and if j
he is gunna b lile that wiv u then Scare him!! Pack a bag n go t ur parents n surely if he loves you he will follow/ask for ya back!!!
And haha tru miss kelleee dnt worry i will be tellin them if he tries!! I havr nighmares bout it tho! These type men dnt deserve anythin""
He earnt £1000 a month and wudnt buy baby stuff he got face on!! He rashoned me to £50 a month cos he was stupid and spent loads on his xbox he said he worked hard by sittin with downsyndrome men n pullin faces!!watching dvds and ordering in then goin f fkin bed!! Yes downs ppl are mentally drainin but he wud cone ome from work and go straight on xbox ALL day n if we visited fmily he went on thier xboxs!!!!!!!?  He was a wanker

[MissKellee]

lol if he pulled any bull crap, tell the court what he did and how you worry about your childs safety because of his attention being focused on an xbox and how he has no ambition to buy things for the baby....lol...seriously id tell court that....theres NO way he would win...lmao

my daughters father thinks he'll win custody of our daughter because he makes 800 bucks a week...but hes like.....dumb in every aspect soooooo :P

[jpittman15]

I wish I could have ur screw him attitude...my boyfriend just stopped speaking to me all together, he pretty much thinks me even having a baby is ruining his life....hope it gets easier for me too :-\

[sanchiwi89]

Well can honestly say dnt drink or do drugs and thanks its encouragin to know :-) i am exited and scared for my little boy to be here and can honestly say im happier now!!  but it has been so hard and i have NO money comin in asf yet and it is a struggle!! Im not even putting him on birth Cert Jbontheway he is Nothing to my boy if he can jus dump us like that"!!
And thanks guys :)

[cahbabynumber5]

Keep your head held high & you'll do just fine. Don't let his words discourage you.

[JBontheway]

Hey, I'm 30 weeks and 5 days, I'm so sorry about your situation, but i can say that even if he tried to take the baby they almost always give it over to the mother, the only main reason they wouldn't is if you did drugs or alcohol openly and around the baby. My brother had a son with a girl and she didn't even have her driver's license and still got custody because my brother wouldn't keep a steady job and didn't actually care about the boy. I think everything will turn out in your favor.