frist time mom.

[Shayla1994]

Im about 5 weeks and my bf dosnt want nothing to do with it if i keep it,  i wanna have this baby but i also dont wanna lose my bf,  I need some Good adives

[lexseababymomma]

I can't believe you just said "if I keep it" & if you do- "I don't wanna lose my bf" Sorry not sorry but yeah you're not ready for a kid.

[Nellyzz]

I was preggo with my exs baby years ago we broke up and I got an abortion. im not one of those girls who will have a baby cos everyone else is its not right. you want your baby to have the best start in their life to have mummy and daddy around. there might be reasons why he doesn't want a baby with you. maybe financially he wouldn't be able to support youse or maybe he has no intention of being with you. having a baby to keep hold of him or watever is soo wrong. every girl does it dont be a statistic be your own person. males always get the raw deal. a chick will keep it and the guy wont want it they will break up and the guy will have to pay child support. even tho he made his concerns. having a baby or bringing a baby into the world should be MUTUAL that's all im trying to say. babys need stability not a new man coming in and out of your life. just think whats best for your beautiful child.

[Nellyzz]

I was preggo with my exs baby years ago we broke up and I got an abortion. im not one of those girls who will have a baby cos everyone else is its not right. you want your baby to have the best start in their life to have mummy and daddy around. there might be reasons why he doesn't want a baby with you. maybe financially he wouldn't be able to support youse or maybe he has no intention of being with you. having a baby to keep hold of him or watever is soo wrong. every girl does it dont be a statistic be your own person. males always get the raw deal. a chick will keep it and the guy wont want it they will break up and the guy will have to pay child support. even tho he made his concerns. having a baby or bringing a baby into the world should be MUTUAL that's all im trying to say. babys need stability not a new man coming in and out of your life. just think whats best for your beautiful child.

[brendylove]

If he really loves you he wouldn't say what he said about not wanting to have to deal with a baby. A baby is a blessing while other woman cannot concieve soo cherish your baby and make the most of it :) if he loves u he will stick around for his family if not then he never was a real man to settle and take responsibility!!

[scillacts]

Your baby more important, my husband was Pisses and threaten to kill the baby but I told him he gonna lose me regardless and I'll never choose my husband over my kids. He had to accept it wheter he likes it or not. And he still here and my second baby still here. If your boyfriend can't man up, thts his lost. Tht baby didn't do nothing but be brought into this world. He knew Wat he was doing.

[hansen20]

But just like the other ladies said keep your baby. You can do it you are a strong lady! Don't let the man make your choices.

[Dlacey]

Mommies babies, Daddies maybes

[CareyMc]

I wouldn't want anybody who could tell a mother to get rid of her child.

[hansen20]

My ex told me to get an abortion but I wouldn't. He threat to punch me in my stomach if I tried to leave, he didn't want me to talk to my family so I took my other 2 kids and left. I went back to my my parents. But he called me and asked me to come back and that he was excited to be a dad after 2-4 weeks. I miscarried the baby because it was conjoined twins. But I did tell him I did miscarried and he cried. But I learned men come and go but you're kids are always going to be there and love you no matter what. I think if you give it time he might come around to it. I think for guys its more scary for them or they just don't want the responsablity. But I could be wrong too. But try talking to him and tell him how you feel.

[MommaAce]

Keep yo bby, cause he can leave for any other reason but yo bby will always be here. Let him go, you'll love this child more than anythin. He'll come around eventually & if he doesn't, oh well.

[vrh123]

keeep youur child.
thats part of youu && even if he walks ouut youu will always havee youur baby.
good luck.