Aa
am i just not attractive anymore?
My fiance works on power lines and hasnt been home for over two weeks... well last night (he had finally gotten home the night before) i asked him about having sex and he said "i'm playing my game" he played his game for hours and i had fallen asleep... today all i can think about it maybe it is because my body has changed and everything? Tonight i reminded him of the time because he has to wake up early for work and he was playing his game so i figured he needed sleep. he got upset with me and said "cant you see that i am in the middle of my game" then about an hour ago, 2am he was asking me to have sex and i told him that maybe next time his game wont be so important :( he has to wake up at 4 am for work and will be gone again for days because of more storms. i just dont know what to do or what to think :(
I know how ya feel I am pregnant with my First and his second he is always talking about his other daughter and when it comes to this one he tells me he has his daughter so he has no opinion
I totally feel you ladies I feel so unattractive I've always been very small n in shape but being pregnant n gaining weigh I Don't feel sexy at all he tells me how beautiful I am n I'm not really even showing although to me I feel huge n how much he loves me but I just don't feel attractive anymore my clothes don't fit the same I've already had large breast but know there extremely big.... Even with sex I just feel big n it's so hard to relax n allow myself to enjoy sex n feel sexy.... Idk n I'm so early on idk what I'm gone do as time passes...
pick a male actor/singer and say well your not the (such n such) kind of husband/partner or father !! that'll fix him
He made the comment that "you just aren't the reese witherspoon kind of pregnant" his ex could pass as a twin to reese witherspoon but me on the other hand... i have dark hair, dark eyes, a little taller but still very tiny.. in the end i have a ton of emotions running through me and i feel like im useless to him other than i am having his first daughter
:'( i could under stand you being mad about that.. luckily with my xhub and my hubby now i was there first baby mama... and I'm about smaller with this pregnancy than with my others...
He has two children with another woman and always talks/talked about how attrcative she was while pregnant.... until i lost it. i felt disrespected and kind of jealous because he just doesnt seem to want me. i am still very tiny and look like i am at the very beginning of my pregnancy when really i am not too far from the end. I just dont understand :(
Oh and I'm 16+3... and now on mandatory pelvic rest... but i still try to please my hubby other ways ya know cause is not his fault... he still gets aggravated though because i "hide my body" especially my belly...
:/.. my exhub did me like that when i was preg with our two kids... made me feel like total Sh!+... my Dr told me then that it may just be his way of copin with everything and the stress.. and some guys feel they will hurt the baby during sex so it scares them... since he didn't act interested in me i quit acting interested in him..i quit trying.. after a week or so he was like wtf going on... lol...
:( im 28 weeks and it is just heart breaking. i even tried all of the little things he likes that turn him on but he just gets upset and says im playing my game. Atleast he did give our baby girl a kiss through my belly before he fell asleep. i still didnt get a kiss or even a good night. i just feel so yucky about myself now
My situation is kinna opposite... my hubby b beggin for sex but i wont because i dont feel attractive... we do every now n then but i feel very much not sexxy as i get bigger... him on the other hand tells me how god i look and how sexy he thinks i am... im tryin to get over it but its hard...
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