am i right

[african_mama_bear]

I can't sleep so I figured why not vent or get advice but I was looking at my bf phone cause we got into a fight the other day and I was gone so I was curious what he was doing while I was gone or who he was talking to them I see he text his friend this girl I don't like their friendship cause I think it's fake one u don't sleep with ur friend on multiple occasions even if it was before me he explained their relationship as someone he can sleep with but she is still a friend lol than two u and ur friend don't make a promise if y'all don't find anyone else y'all gone get married there must be some feelings there if y'all that comfortable to get married but he swears they friends so I saw he text her saying this may sound strange she asked what he ain't say nothing to my knowledge he still didn't but in my mind I'm like what ay sound strange u love her wanna marry her way but now he is defensive and all mad which is only makin himself look guilty I'm to the point where I'm going to draw the line either u keep being friends with her or u respect me and let her go that's not a friend that's a sleeping partner he had problems with me having guy friends but my guy friends and I never had sex nvr seen each other naked nvr said we would get married lol I'm so over it I should've never came back n let him keep begging

[xoAmbsss]

Exactly lol maybe you need to set her straight to and let her know to leave him alone . She has no buisness communicating with him

[african_mama_bear]

Yea I'm goin to tell him he always says if I wanted to be with her I wouldn't have u so I'm thinking u have me so y u still need her smh he gone have to make a choice cuz I'm not goin to be ok with this or have her around our kids let's see what he says lol

[xoAmbsss]

Tell him he either needs to stop talking to her or lose you because he needs to respect the fact that you two are together and respect that you dont like him talking to her . Communication is key , you gott to be hard on them sometimes or else they will think its okay when its not . I know what your going through lol