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Apparently me telling him he needs to stay sober in case I go into labor is "trying to run his life" -.-
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5387794 tn?1373257093
I'm just worried for you when the baby comes. Sounds like his ways aren't going to change for anything or anyone :/
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4715985 tn?1371582997
I dont get why ur staying with him? He has no respect for you or his baby to come! What r u going to do when he comes home drunk with a newborn in the house? Hes not going to change. He obviously needs help with his drinking problem but people like him dont get help until they realise they need help. I hope for you that someone will be there for you when u go into labor cuz i highly doubt hell make it if he keeps going the way he is
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Yeah I could call my mom. And she hates his guts. I need someone who I can count on no matter what and right now I'm not getting that :/ it's not fair
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5371784 tn?1370824532
I'm having to deal with that from my hubby to. Only I am dialated! N hes like well u only lil over 2 its not like u gonna reach full 10 in one night. Ur not gonna pop. I'm like really!! I found out I was 1 cm with my son n had him 3 days later!!!! U never do know!! My son was born at 38 weeks. I'll b 38 weeks with our daughter this Sunday. All he wants to do is go out on boat with friends n fish n drink. Knock on wood he ain't drank but he takes a beer out every night n keeps it by him n literally sleeps beside it!! I'm Sry u having to go though what u are. But at least u have somebody u can call in case hes not available.
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I also wasn't pregnant and had no kids and no responsibilities. Things change
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It's ridiculous. I'm so sick of it. He said well this is how you met me -.-
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5574172 tn?1376700381
ahh the nerve of some guys never fails to amaze me! I'm sorry your having to deal with that! :/
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5426152 tn?1382129604
KDQ
You have every right to feel that way. I hope he smartens up and realizes what he is at risk of losing!
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Yeah. I told him if he's drunk when I go to the hospital he's not welcome. Guess he didn't care. I'm lnot gonna have him all drunk if im in labor. Either be there sober or not at all
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5426152 tn?1382129604
KDQ
Uh men! Mine had a cow cause I had the nerve to tell him he needs to keep his phone on him while he is at work in case I need to get in touch. Do you have someone else you can call when you go into labor just in case?
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He then told me since I'm not dilated I'm not gonna go into labor. That's his excuse to get drunk
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