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So i asked my bf 2 days ago if he can give me a foot massage, im 33 weeks my feet are swollen and i just would like one u know, and i rarely ask him to give me massages cuz its always a no , anyways he was high whwn he told me ok babe i will but tommorow but instead ill give u a full body massage just wait till i wake up.so im over here thinking yea w.e i know he will probably forget or end up not doing it cuz thats how it always is..surely.enough the next day comes , he wakes up at 6pm. Gets mad that i remind him about the massage so we end up arguing and he never did it and said dont remind me cuz i will do it whenever i want .. so the next day comes and i did not remind him at all .he also woke up late and right b4 it turned 12 i reminded him and again he got mad becuz of that ... like dude if you dont wanna give me the freakin massage just tell me? Hes being immature keeping me waiting .. its ****** up especially if he promised . This might be a stupid fight but i know im not the wrong one here
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I don't normally like my feet being touched but when I want a foot rub I just go get a pedicure . They do pretty good if you ask me lol
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My boyfriend complains cause i ask for massages n he never gets any..  but hes sweet he will rub my feet or back for me if i ask most the time even if he complains. Cuz heck im 35weeks i need some care XD hehehe not to long ago i asked for a back rub and he winded up rubing my entire body... even arms n legs. It was wonderful :3.... men can be such jerks tho
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I don't have this problem I'm only 18 weeks and my husband does everything for me
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Anyone else ? Share thier opinion?
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He's being really selfish. You're pregnant and your feet are swollen carrying HIS baby, the least he can do is give you a foot massage. I'm lucky and thankful my boyfriend has been so amazing during my pregnancy. I get full body massages every night without asking. The only times I don't get one is if I fall asleep as soon as I get home from work lol. Have you tried talking to him about it? And there's no reason for him to get mad when you remind him that he promised he'd give you a massage.
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