anybody else have someone living with them?

[jessa1990]

My boyfriends momma lives with us and she is so lazy and she always waits to do stuff until its inconvenient for everyone else I'm off 3 days a week and she is here constantly and doesn't work he works 6 to 7 days a week she waits until we are home to clean anything if she does at all and she helps the least with bills which I said would be fine because she is supposed to help keep the house cleaned up she has 2 dogs and we have 1 and when we are gone I swear they never get taken outside everyday when I work I'll come home and step in pee on a rug or my kitchen floor will have a half dozen dried pee spots and she'll swear they were taken out plenty but she took a 2 week trip and even on the days we worked and they were alone I had less **** to clean because as soon as I get up they were taken out now I've been cleaning all day laundry swept and mopped dusted and I even slept in and was gone for a few hours earlier and all she has done all day Is sit on the computer and my boyfriend wouldn't listen while she was gone I tried asking how much longer he thinks she will be here and his answer was its good to have her around

[mommytobe32]

Me and my baby dad split up because of all the abuse he put me threw and let his family put me threw and the fact he said he won't help with my daughter when she here but wants to be in her life. He won't move out of my house everytime he leaves he calls the cops and say I beat him up or lies to them just so they will make me let him back he won't help clean the house pay bills nothing he blows his check and makes me take care of him all month long. It's getting old I want him out so bad. Hes crazy and nasty when I ringgit cigarette he goes pick them out of people ash tray. I've tried everything to get him out. For mine and my daughter sake. So I feel everysingle one of u guys

[jessa1990]

I would have a cow we don't argue much and neither of us mind helping our friends but usually ask that's ever been was crashing on the couch for a few days we talk everything out and compromise I'm just hoping when the baby arrives she does help more

[rebeccaann11]

My boyfriend actually told him friend and his girlfriend they could come live with us BEFORE asking me. He is coming the first of may. I just had surgery and have to do weekly blood test for a few months and go back to a specialist in a month. I told him I'm mad he said they could come stay with us. I'm not looking forward to it but nothing I can do.

[jessa1990]

She was living with his brother's ex wife and she got engaged to someone so it got awkward and she helped there with his niece and nephews she is on our lease since we just moved to a bigger place for when our son is born but she gets disability so she could get assistance with housing I'm thinking once our year lease is up she has to go

[Momma_Paige]

My boyfriend moves his cousin in our house, he lives off disability, is lazy and sits around my house watching tv, sleeping or eating. I clean up not only after my boyfriend but him too. Me and my boyfriend fight everyday about him being there and he claims to be "helping family out" so that makes me "heartless".
He first said his cousin was kicked out and was going to come over here and find a job and his own place asap and 2 and a half weeks later, he's still here.. hasn't even attempted to find a job or a place, is ONLY giving us $100 when really he should be paying $250 for a third of our bills. And the excuse for only charging $100 was so, "he could save up money to move out and if he paid more he wouldnt be able to move out".. he gets $900 a month to sit on his ***.
Im not even comfortable in my own home and I run to my moms while she's gone just to get away, I feel like I'm constantly picking up after people and I try to explain that you can't help someone that does not want to help theirself and if my boyfriend REALLY wanted to help he'd tell his fat lazy 23 yr old cousin to get off his *** and do something with his life, not let him come pile up at our house cause his parents got sick of him doin it at their house.
I'm 28 weeks pregnant and I'm positive that he will be living here till she's born, my boyfriend said he HAD to leave by the time she's here.
And ill make sure that happens.

PS. Hes sleeping on my unborn daughters bedroom floor.

[rebeccaann11]

For awhile we had my boyfriends. Sister,  h er boyfriend,  and their son live with us. They fought like no other. Fought in the house and even in the front yard were people could see them. Her boyfriend helped out as much as he could. But my boyfriends sister NEVER did anything. They keep their room filthy!! I actually had to tell me boyfriend he needed to say something bc they would have a diaper box and FILL it with used diapers! They were supposed to be there only 3 months but stayed til almost 8.

[jessa1990]

My boyfriend tries to help but he works long hours and almost everyday she cooks some times but then she cooks stuff I hate or that has been giving me problems since I'm pregnant she is always saying I'll get those dishes so I'll leave them in there and the next morning they're still never done but I'll get up to pee at 3 and 4 am and she is still up then when she gets hungry she will do them and ask what am I cooking

[stinaann93]

I understand. My husbands mom and brother live with us. And she is a pack rat from hell. I'm constantly having to clean. He's not working so he eats up alllllll of our groceries. She never helps with laundry or cleaning, or even cooking. We have three kids and I'm four days overdue with our fourth. Its driving me insane because my husband already expects me to do everything so I feel like I have six kids already and one more on the way ahah