arguing with the bd....

[miracle_mommy2014]

he really frustrates me ive tried to be so mature about this whole situation. idk if its my hormones or what but i mean i feel like things have changed or he doesnt love me and he doesnt want to be with me. bit i mean ive told him if he doesnt want to be together we can co parent. if he wants to be in her life i wont keep him from her. but i told him if we break up and he vanishes and doesnt check in and see how she is that he needs to realize that things arent gonna work that way. (im not gonna let a dead beat drop in and out when he wants). i mean am i wrong? am i handling this wrong? i dont need the stress of worrying about if me and him are together or not. im trying to do whats best for my babygirl. im a ftm. idk what to do.

[Rayniece]

I kno how your feeling..! But you kno how you should go along with this..Change & be a different you not saying not to be you but be a better person & let him see that in you. SHOW him to let him kno with or without him you & daughter will be Great. Because some Men think jst because they have the women they always wanted & know they have her on lock they can do any & everything & get away with it. Sometimes you gotta let him kno, "get your Act together, or it's not me & you anymore, it's all about you guys daughter that it"

[miracle_mommy2014]

im scared idk what to do. i know hell be a good dad. but i dont want him thinking he can go back to his old ways and not be around and then just show up when he feels like it.

[Rayniece]

I like the way your acting about the whole situation! you doing good, by making sure what every you guys differences are you can push then aside & letting him be in you child life regardless. & you Are going with this situation the right way.. & you have to think about..he's probably nervous of being a father but that's ALRIGHT you guys should jst work it no matter what for you guy relationship & your daughter ❤️ That's all Hun.