What to do?? caught my fiance masturbating!

[katieJ814]

i feel so upset angry and worthless im 11weeks preg and his excuse was he doesnt know why he did it, and what makes it worse is 3hours before i caught him we had sex.. wat should i do? x

[Sheasha]

I don't think it is a bad thing if you have an active sex life. I feel The same way bit we haven't had sex in seven months Because I am too big for his taste and he Told me that so as long as you don't hear something like that then I think you are ok

[jennylynn198817]

I feel its totally normal... girls do it to.

[encee1126]

Lol I make fun on my fiance too because he tries to be sneaky about it, but he can't get anything past me lol. I caught him once coming out of the restroom with his laptop. I made fun of him the rest of the day. And all the women are right. As long as he's not trying to be with other women.

[crm123]

Oh lord, guys are just weird. But believe it or not no matter what kind of relationship they are in they will always ALWAYS play with themselves. Its just a guy thing. But you shouldn't be upset about it because im sure its a hell of a lot better then f u c k Ing other ladies. it bothers me when I find my man doing it but I just laugh it off and make fun of him.

[ara0986]

Its nothing to be mad about.its something that all men/woman do.dont be mad girl.ok

[sharmander]

At least your bf isnt having wet dreams...... While he sleeps next to you.

[kalie1313]

Unnecessary stress woman! Its not like you caught him cheating.. Its normal!

[LadyLynch]

I have walked in on my hubby several times, we have a very active sex life and it doesn't bother me at all. Its very natural for men I don't think you should be mad at him or make him feel like he has to hide it from you. As long as he is still interested in sex I don't think you have anything to worry about.

[peaches421]

Be greatful that he's masterbating and not 'threating' to have sex with another girl because ur pregnant and aren't in the mood.

[crstl11]

I feel ya I hate it when my hubby does it but it because I feel like I'm not meeting his needs and he will cheat in me...

[TxMamma]

Its totally normal. I think their balls exploe if they dont. ;)  These days I'm glad my hubby does it bc I ain't putting out. Had baby 9 weeks ago and just don't have a sex drive.

[Jubileemommy]

I agree that its normal for guys to masterbate. Its also a form of stress relief, some lil boys will naturally play with themselves when stressed. Men just dont grow up lol.

[lovelyglover]

I honestly don't find.masturbating as bad as watching porn...sometimes guys wanna be selfish and only please themselves without having to worry about what feels good for yu

[leticia710]

You do nothing that is like getting mad at him for going to the bathroom or eating its normal

[alaysha]

Honestly my husband has masturbated maybe a handful of times in the last 3 years. That's only when I catch him. I really don't think its a big deal and we have an active sex life so I know its not that he isn't interested in me. Its just something men do. As long as it isn't ALL the time like a monkey on crack and it doesn't interfer with your sex life Id just let it go.

[DNP47]

Thats what ALL boys/men do. I agree that it has absolutely nothing to do with you. It isnt that you are unattractive, or not enough for him.....it is completely natural.

[tasha_labruyere]

I would be upset. But thats anytime. I feel like im not good enuff when my fiancee masturbates. I dont so why shuld he. Hes enuff for me..

[mommy_2013]

Masturbation is a normal thing. It has nothing to do with you,I promise. I know your hormones are out of wack bc so are mine but you shouldn't be upset over him masturbating.