heartbroken

[westernbabe]

im just really upset b/c me and the hubs have been trying to have baby number 2 since july with no luck so far!!! when i was preg with my first child (son) my best friend was preg at the same time but about a month and a half behind me in her pregnacy and we both had boys. even with my son being early her son was to and they are still a month a part lol. well anyways the other day she texted me & said im preg this is he second as well and it just breaks my heart bc me and hubs been trying for so long and i want another baby so bad!!! i mean it would be really funny if i find out im preg aroung the 14th of feb bc thats when my period is due, cause than our kiddos would be like the same age again but im really worried that im going to be heartbroken again bc last month my period was two weeks late so i tested but negitive than next day it showed i don't want that to happen again. :( :( i would love to not get my period on the 14th or at all this month and find out im preg again!!!! it's just hard bc we've been trying for what feels like an eternity and now everyone around me is preg or trying!!!!! sorry jsut letting feelings out hubs don't like to talk about that stuff he says if it happens it happens i just want some support and wishful thinking so i can anounce im preg too :) and maybe with a girl this time since i have a boy already but i wouldn't be upset if i got another boy

[jenjenN86]

My first it took me exactly 6 months to get pregnant! I hope you test positive, it's so hard to wait when your ready lol. Good luck!

[agrell]

I am in the same boat hun :/ we have been trying since May and i did get pregnant in Sept but that ended in a miscarriage and ever since that it seems never ending...i am so ready to be pregnant again...my husband doesnt wanna talk about it either...if i bring it up he rolls his eyes at me like its the worse thing to talk about...sometimes i just need to talk about it and he doesnt understand that at all...i am here if you ever wanna talk...i will help out as much as i can :)

[joolschic]

Sorry...coconut WATER!!!

[joolschic]

Google coconut oil....supposed to be geat for fertility...and just keep having fun trying ;-) o

[joolschic]

Google coconut oil....supposed to be great for fertility...and just keep having fun trying ;-)

[Lesley27]

you should be taking some sort of daily vitamin and folic acid as it starts helping 3 months ahead (before your even pregnant)... and especially folic acid if not anything else... i wouldnt test any earlier than when you period is due but if your continues to show up late or not in sync with your app then its hard to tell when you ovulate exactly or when your period is due for sure... i would use ovulation strips and like i said make it a goal to have fun! but this way you know you are increasing your chances each month...you can get them cheap off ebay and lots of them... there are ways of tracking but making it fun...and like i said before its kinda the womans job to do what you gotta do to make the best outta sex as guys dont seem to have any troubles!

Also eat healthy, exercise, and just take care of yourself... but for sure take you viatmins... its better for your baby to already have them there waiting for them as they need it before you even know your pregnant!

[westernbabe]

i stopped tracking everything except my periods bc when i  was it was like just a mission & sex was not what i wanted so we do have fun i have an app that tells when you should be ovulating so we use that but i haven't been checking it lately i only checked it to see when my next period should  be due im not taking prenatal vitamins already due to the fact i like the perscription ones better than the over the counter. i do have a few perscription ones left from when i had my son but i would like to take those for when  i know for sure im preg until my dr can get me more. sometimes it's every other day somestimes it's a few days straight so idk lol i could be preg now but if i am im only 3w would that be to soon to test or should i wait until the 14th and see if my period shows? cause with my son i didn't get a positive test until i was three months along and i tested all the time bc i missed my period but he wasn't planned thats y we didn't take further action!!!

[Lesley27]

Are you doing anything to help, like ovulation tests, tracking basal temp, sex every other day, ect? Ive said this before but i really do think the sex should be fun and all about the woman! it goes along with the it will happen when it happens --> this is when the woman relaxes and has fun... as the woman cant be stressing the whole time or then they dont enjoy the sex or get the "same results" as the guy lol i really think anything you can do to make it exciting for you is gonna help as the more turned on you are the more fluids you release to help the sperm and if you climax it releases even more...so its a win win... sperm has a better chance of getting there and you and your partner both get to enjoy it! never use regular lube as sperm cant swim through it, if you need help there are actual lubes ment for concieveing as sperm can swim in it.... so if you do use ovualtion strips, when you see it turn positive you should have a game plan to make the best of the night, put on a sexy outfit under your day clothes as this will make you think about it all day as woman take longer to get in the mood and focus on a fun night and NOTon baby making! It will happen, some couple take longer than others and some can easily take up to a year or more... and i know its easier said then done but try not to focus on it and have fun... make that your new goal each month on O day is the say you really kick it up and have fun!!! (you still should have sex every other day to build up sperm count)