feeling mad and upset

[mommyof2nowtp]

Everything was fine and I accepted the fact that my baby's dad had a gf, until he came over and was trying to kiss one me. It made me mad. Mad at him that he so freely messed with my emotions. My baby shower is coming up soon and my baby's dad's mom asked how I felt about my baby's dad coming with his girlfriend. Does anyone else think that is rude and inconsiderate? They all love her and I feel so left out and mad and hurt and I feel like "but yet they want to ask if she can come to my baby shower" I just feel hurt :/

[Mommy2be_06_03]

If it's not his mom throwing it I wouldn't feel obligated to invite her and definitely not now cause she doesn't know who you are and the situation it's a day about you and baby not the drama bs they can save that for another day..

[mommyof2nowtp]

I'm sorry I'm totally not trying to bring drama to this site but I just messaged his gf saying I have no problem with her and I'd like to meet her sometime if when the baby comes she wants to be around him. The girl didn't even know who I was or what I was talking about

[mommyof2nowtp]

My mom is

[Mommy2be_06_03]

Who's throwing the shower?

[Clarag13]

Don't have her there! That's so inconsiderate that they would ask you.  Wow some people surprise me. It's your day and the babys. Don't hold back if you don't want her there tell them.  Who cares if they think it's childish your feelings are way more important the hers and trying to make you happy should be the priority. This is just my opinion and what I would do.  Hope your day goes good and that your happy with the results.

[Brez419]

Omg that day is abt you an the baby why would you want her there? Why would they even ask, it's awkward his mom is just thinking of what she wants to happen, you do what you want an you invite who you want it's your day, screw them

[mommyof2nowtp]

I feel mad at his mom and I don't want there to be any conflict idk why she would even ask that i just feel hurt

[respectbee]

Omg I'm sorry but what kind of question is that??and I would have said why would she even want to be at my baby shower.. I think it's so disrespectful and I would have said No

[mommyof2nowtp]

I replied to his mom that I don't know how I'd feel that with him kissing me I feel like I'm starting over letting go and he just made it awkward, I've never met her yet. And his mom just replied kind of rude saying "probably no need to stress about it she might not even want to partake, it was just a thought"

[metalmommie]

This day is about you and baby, not about accommodating his new girlfriend. If you do not want her there, do not have her there.

[dorrae]

As a women she just choose for her self not to go and let you at least have that day iinstead of trying to take the focus off of you and baby

[mommyof2nowtp]

I don't want to be childish I just feel like so much is happening all at once and him kissing me just really messed with me