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bf and husband's during pregnancy!
I'm just wondering how everyone's bf or husband is helping them out or doing special things for them? I love hearing about it although I've never experienced that during my pregnancy and it hurts I won't lie my husband never does anything special for me he used to BEFORE I got pregnant now I never get foot rubs or help around the house I'm almost 34 weeks exhausted in pain and still taking care of the entire house cooking whether I'm sick or in a lot of pain my man does not care.
@whitejasminerose3 My boyfriend would come home to a loaded double barrel shotgun if he ever talked to me the way your husband does you are far to young to deal with that...it's not okay
I think guys just don't always get what a big strain it is, and think "people have babies all the time". Mine is only just getting better with helping out and i am at 28 weeks..
lol my boyfriend says he will give me massages but he falls asleep that fast its like he has narcalepsie or whatever its called. its insane, will be having a conversation with him then next min im talking to myself and hes fast asleep! i dunno sometimes you just gotta ask because men aint all that good at reading the messages and signals we send out, nomatter how OBVIOUS we make them! and as for him not picking that toilet brush up and giving you attitude i think thats attrocious!! he certainly needs a reality check. clearly thinks its easy lugging all this extra weight about with backache and uneven balance. not to mention the rest. i'd be speaking up and putting your foot down with him. sounds like hes just taking the micky out of you hun.x
I feel u on that , hell 250 dollars on some shades .... no sir he wouldve been returning them
My boyfriend is 18 hell do anything I ask and there for me and I have to say im not always easy to be around but i have been doing alot better with my mood swings...but I cant help but feel that he does always get that were having a baby and that 250$ pair of sunglasses is ridiculous he has sunglasses that are perfectly fine infact he takes good care of them but so then why do you need new ones why not spend the money on fixing his truck!! The front bumper is falling off bc he is missing 2 pieces and there like 100$ fix your truck or better new shoes for work bc his are wore out but you think of sunglasses of all things I just dont get a mind of a man I feel like sometimes im the only one that thinks logically but I cant complain bc hes a sweetheart and do anything for me it just frustrates me
Lol well welcome to young motherhood girl !!! How old wer u wen u got married ? My boyfriend and i have been together 4 years and just started having sex 2 years ago lol i end up pregnant with a boy and im due on my birthday
@Hmph18 I think we should just enjoy this pregnancy as much as possible and pamper ourselves! I love weekdays that way I don't have to see him while he's at work! Lol
@whitejasminerose3 ... i think he is scared or nervous and dont know how to deal with it ! He is being mean and he has to understand that ur very emotional now and u need his support , my bf just go to the extra room in the house wen i start getting on his nerves ... ur husband should be more understanding due to the fact ur pregnamt with his child , u didnt lay there and get pregnant on ur own so he should be helpful through the 9 months and for another 18 years
Well im only 18 and my boyfriend is 20 , im 28weeks and he is very helpful ... he paints my toes , he helps me in the shower lol im very clumpsy ... he makes sure im eating , he holds my hand so that i wont fall ... he is being a real sweetheart and i love it
I'm 25 weeks and we've never hated each other this much. There's good times still but I feel like there's more bad. He's really stressed and hates me Because I'm not making as much as I used to. He doesn't do anything special for me except pay most of the bills so I'm glad he does that but I wish I was with someone more affectionate. I understand how you feel like it's our fault for being with someone like this :(
@crashmomma lol! Yep I've tried he'll just not eat then or make himself a sandwich and watch TV..
Theres just no point of explaining it I have tried and just waisted my energy and breath lol when I asked him this evening to pick up a toilet bowl brush because it was lying on the floor so I can scrub our toilets he looks at me and says you have arms what's your excuse? I have cried and stressed now I just rely on myself I don't even bother asking him. My own fault for marrying someone like that :/ I hope all you ladies are treated well and spoiled these months are so precious
Sounds like he needs to realize what your going through im sorry to hear thst about yoyr husband
My husband doesn't do anything unless I ask. Lol he's been more loving though now that the baby will be here any day now.
Maybe "accidentally" forget to cook supper after you tell him you'll make his favorite dish
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